Any suggestions on what I can do to show my appreciation to my husband

South Africa
September 12, 2006 5:56am CST
He does so much for me...If I dont get breakfast in bed, I get flowers. He helps me clean and cook. When I am sick he takes good care of me. When I carry heavy stuff,eg. groceries, he come to my rescue. Now I want to do something special for him, advice will be welcome and tried.
14 responses
@bhbirdie6 (1765)
• United States
15 Oct 06
My hunny really appreciates massages it helps him to relax whenever he's stressed. You can give him oneself or if you're not sure how good you'll be at it just get him a spa certificate for a massage. Some spas actually have a couples treatment.
@babray06 (1787)
• India
17 Sep 06
I can see you love him and care for him. Every person is diffent. You are lucky to have such a good life partner. Don't ask others, you may get confused. Just think of him only, it will be doing him a lot of good. Presenting any material things will be as if you returned the favour which is not the case.
• United States
12 Sep 06
Does he ask you much from you? He probably is happy with you and safisfied. Maybe he get happy doing things for you. For me, my hubby do a lot for me and I really cant do much for him, so, I just buy t-shirts, jeans, here and there things he need and candy, reese cup, that his favorite. We will act like we are in high school when it comes to gifts.
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
12 Sep 06
I think it's time you came out of your daydream and took a look at what is really going on around you...
@nymphy (139)
12 Sep 06
Man, you are the happy one. If u dont know what to do, just try to do wht he is doing to you. If he does smth for you that means that he will like it done to him.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
15 Sep 06
The best thing to do is that: prepair a dinner, under candle light, with his favourite foods (I hope he doesn't like many of them) and then before you sit down and enjoy your meal, take him in your arms, look at him straight in his eyes and tell him that you love him and you thank him for the life you have with him, that I can assure you no woman has. Lucky lady, you are! Hope you will always be.
@amiksinha (1960)
• India
12 Sep 06
Ur hubby really loves you very much and cares for you. But my advise for you not to do something special for a time, intead u also take care for him in the same way he does all the way... There could be many samll things which happens in day to day life, where he will be in need of ur support... make sure you are always there on his side
@jhannon (1406)
• United States
12 Sep 06
MAybe book a suprse getaway romantic nite bring candles geta room with hot tub.Buy some red roses,bring whine..Pack his bag for a nite bring romantic music..If you have kids get a sitter for the day..Maybe anice heartfelt card.Bring his favorite snakc or food or soemthing u know he loves..Get inside his head bring what you know he would like..If you guys are romantics this may be a nice evening..
@shubhvani (275)
• India
12 Sep 06
when your husband is helping you at every step,never think of showing your appreciation for what he did. appeciation is not an object to be shown,it reflects in various ways.
@Salixj13 (46)
• Israel
12 Sep 06
Just love him up and count yourself lucky. Try and return his favors and do for him as he does for you. Make him special meals, give him a nice backrub, tell him how lucky you are to have a great man like him in your life. If you can do embridory, maybe make a wall hanging listing all his wonderful qualities, and hang it in a prominent place.
@missyann73 (1454)
• United States
12 Sep 06
you are a luckly woman. Be yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, and all else will fall into place. god bless
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
12 Sep 06
See remember 1 thing... look at ur husband, he does so much for u, and he does not ask any1 what he shd do so as to make u happy, he does whatever his heart says. so evn u shd do the same thing, go wit ur heart. do wht ur hearts tells. and dont take any1's opinion for this purpose, as this may help u once, twice, thrice.... but wht next.... try to understand him... see wht he likes and wht he loves and do that... he would really appreciate it..... i m also a boy and know pretty well what boys like... so if u do it today coz some1 tells u and forget to do it tommorrow it may hurt him....
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Sep 06
love him. take care of him. see to it that you are able to give him his needs. be sweet. be thoughtful. appreciate the kindness he is showing you and be kind to him, too. it's give and take..
@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
12 Sep 06
Without being sarcastic a romantic evening of blindfolding, ice and sweets has always shown my husband just HOW MUCH I appreciate him.