N.P.D

@JLHolley (128)
Visalia, California
January 6, 2020 12:50pm CST
Is your spouse a delight to the public eye and a monster behind closed doors? Interagation tactical arguments that leave you feeling confused and at fault? It is not your fault it is narcsisstic personality disorder and it is becoming more common everyday. Several stages of n.p.d relationships include love bombing, gashlighting, smear campaigns, devaluation and disgard. It was a wonderful discovery learning these stages and then pin pointing them as my relationship went through it's abusive cycle.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
6 Jan 20
I think my ex was kind of a narcissist. Every time I have an issue with him he always always just manage to make the issue my fault. He never acknowledges when he is at fault.
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Jenny Holley
@JLHolley (128)
• Visalia, California
7 Jan 20
Yes and they make everyone else believe u are at fault to. It took me 7 yrs to catch my ex and his smear campaign against me
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 20
@JLHolley Yeah it really ruined my self esteem and made me doubt myself. But when I ask other people if how they’d react they have similar reaction as me.
YoghurtGal
@flapiz (23153)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 22
@JimBo452020 that was 2 years ago. I am 31 years old and I am on my 3rd relationship. I don't think I'm doing so bad
Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
7 Jan 20
It's good my wife is not a narcissist.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 20
I hope that he is your EX now.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
13 Feb 20
@JLHolley I know exactly what you are saying. For a while I used to think the way he treated me was my fault and then realized it was not. We have been divorced for a very long time. It was not the right marriage.
Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
13 Feb 20
@JLHolley Sometimes it may not heal, but life goes on.
Jenny Holley
@JLHolley (128)
• Visalia, California
13 Feb 20
Yes the trauma bonds that are created are real it takes healing
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