When You Throw Someone Out of the House

He’s seriously considering it.

@Luap1050 Thank you!

I agree with you John....start fresh ...He can create some new memories....good ones

@DianneN It is really a shame that he sold his other house. He needs something smaller, men do not need a large house, something more simple is better.

@LadyDuck It is a shame. That was his first house which he bought brand new and all on his own. He doesn’t need much in life to make him happy. We will have to wait and see what he decides to do. He’s very close to us and tells us everything. Some things we don’t want to know.

He doesn’t think much about the bad times. Only the good. The house is ridiculously large for one single guy. He wants something smaller and less ostentatious. Too bad he sold his other house because of that cheater.

@DianneN Two people makes more sense than one, besides they probably had guests. Boston isn't that far you will see him all the time if he goes there.

@snowy22315 You’re right! Boston is less than 3 hours from us and will give us an excuse to visit more often. We all love it there.

Our best friends live in a 5200 square foot home and it’s just the two of them. They happen to like large houses. Our son really doesn’t need such a huge house anymore. He’s going to look for something smaller and less ostentatious when he’s ready. He isn’t far from his business now. I just hope he doesn’t move to Boston, which he’s thinking about. Kind of like moving to Brazil as far as I’m concerned.

Exactly! He loves being close to us, but hasn’t thought much about where he’d like to live except Boston. If he moves that far from us, we’re moving, too!

@HazySue How far are you from your girls?

@DianneN I know how you feel. We have been talking about moving closer to our girls.

He unfortunately has good memories of her, too.

@Hannihar

@DianneN I am sure he does not just have bad memories of her.

Yes, it truly is.

@DianneN And probably we will get something better for a bachelor. Maybe nearer his job.

Thanks. He wants something smaller. If needed, he can always get another house.

@marguicha He’s not far from where he works now, but a smaller house won’t cost so much in taxes and upkeep.

@DianneN Ah, well he is young and luckily no children are involved . . . he is free to go where he it feels right for him - I have no doubt in time he will find that place. Wow, Boston!

I agree. First, he has to decide where he wants to live. That’s his main problem right now. He’s thinking of moving to Boston.

I hope he finds what he's looking for quickly, I'm sure he doesn't like all the reminders that house gives him.

@rebelann Thanks, but he is doing fine and busy working. He’s in no rush to leave.

He won’t put it on the market until he decides where he wants to live, but he definitely intends to downsize. No pets for him at least for now.

@DianneN as @JohnRoberts and others have said... A fresh start is good

He wants to downsize no matter what, but doesn’t know where he wants to live, yet. If his life changes, he could always buy another beautiful house. There are so many gorgeous houses around.

@Marilynda1225

He’s over her, but it’s the good memories he keeps yapping about. He should have a smaller place.

Thanks and I agree.

So can I.

@DianneN maybe he need another woman who can revive back his lost spirits

@amitkokiladitya He only wants a female companion. He says he’s not interested in marriage. Time will tell.

He may do that.

@DianneN wow I’d be so embarrassed if my man had to do it all. My house was spotless when my kids were little and their father lived here.

@shaggin She apparently had no interest in him or the house. The rotten thing was that she let him buy it in the first place and spend all that money. #@*%

It is a lot to take care of, but he’s used to doing that. His ex did absolutely nothing.

@DianneN Needs to buy a little run down shack

@wolfgirl569 Yes!

I agree. He is still thinking about where he would go.

I agree. He loved this house, but wants to downsize. He only lives in three rooms, so wants to downsize. If his life changes, he can always buy another house. With his new raise, he can buy one three times the size.

@just4him But can you walk a dog? That’s a problem. He’d be very happy in any space, no matter the size. The first home he ever bought was brand new. It had 3 bedrooms, a laundry room, and 2 1/2 baths. One of the bedrooms was converted into a kitty room. Now he’s done with pets, too.

@DianneN I can't imagine a raise like that or a house that big. I'd be good with three bedrooms and two baths. Though I love my apartment. It's perfect for me. Though I would love another dog. I miss having a dog. I had a dog for over twenty years.

@thelme55 Thanks so much. We are on FaceTime with him. He’s busy with work.

He’s considering where to move to. He will definitely downsize. If his life changes, he could always buy another large house.

@DianneN I wish him good luck to whatever he plans to do.

Thank you. His house is gorgeous inside and outside.

@mrki444 Lol! He has couches in his family room and in his study. lol

@DianneN I would like one chouch so I can lay down plus TV.

Thanks so much. He’s still thinking about where to move and what to buy.

@CarolDM He will. Thanks!

@DianneN I am sure he will make the right decision.