Just a question
@Honesmama84 (593)
United States
February 5, 2020 12:03pm CST
Okay so my question is... If you had 3 families (yes I said 3) and none of them talk to you what would you do? I actually have a step-mom, a step-dad and I have my adopted family. Due to some of my medical issues I cannot travel as much as I used to be able to and they are all upset with me. A lot of my family claims that I'm not sick and when I showed them proof that I was sick and what I had including my pre cancer they started harassing me and calling me a liar. When I offer for them to come see me they make excuses on why they can't come every time or say they will be here and when they don't show up my kids and up broken hearted. So what is your opinion on what you just read?
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@rakski (122983)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
@Honesmama84 just let them be, do not let them bother you. and do not tell the kids if they are coming or not. The kids will get high hopes 
@RebeccasFarm (89882)
• Arvada, Colorado
5 Feb 20
I would dump them all.you do not need that type of family drama
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
5 Feb 20
I hear this kind of story all to often and first my opinion is that it is sad that people are like this. That road goes both ways so if they wanted to see you and the kids that much they would find a way to get there. Sadly the kids are the ones that are going to be most affected by this.
@Honesmama84 (593)
• United States
5 Feb 20
Exactly. My mother told me to let my kids know that they can spend the night at her place and to have all their stuff ready and that she be here in an hour. About '15 minutes before she was supposed to be here she called and said that her babysitter could not handle her kids so she had to turn back around and go home. She was exactly 2 streets away when she called me and told me that meanwhile my youngest wh is 4 fell asleep on the couch looking out the window waiting for her to show up.
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@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
5 Feb 20
@Honesmama84 Oh man, that is crazy and then your the one who has to try and explain it to the kids.
@Honesmama84 (593)
• United States
5 Feb 20
@Bensen32 She has done this 4 times in the past 2 years and each time claimed that I should have known better then to tell my kids she was supposed to be here
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Feb 20
If they don't want you just leave them. Be happy to your life
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Feb 20
@Honesmama84 that is good
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@Honesmama84 (593)
• United States
6 Feb 20
@resukill22 I refuse to let anyone make my kids feel unloved
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