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If you tell someone you’re done but you’re not really done... It devalues what you are saying you are done with: - If you say you are done with your relationship it devalues it... - If you say you are done with your gf/bf it devalues them If they say they are done (even if they aren’t) don’t go back... Don’t even look back... If you compare your current relationship to others you’ve had your partner is going to feel worthless... Don’t mention your exes... Don’t even go there... Unless it’s good reinforcement i.e. “you’re better than them” that is honestly the best feeling in the world (did that sound shallow? (even if it does I don’t care cause it’s the truth)) If you keep telling them that they need to improve without acknowledging you have things you need to improve on in the same conversation they’re going to feel like it is all on them... That’s NOT fair. If you tell them what they did wrong you will most likely get a defensive response... Maybe instead lead with how you felt when they did said thing then they can relate to your emotion instead of you just seeming angry...