My Poppy's birthday today....
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
Perth, Australia
March 6, 2020 9:01am CST
Today is my Poppy's birthday ( Grandfather not my dad ). Well actually in an hour it will all be over. 11pm here.
I have somewhat mentioned in various posts of mine that my Pop is suffering with Dementia. I have yet to talk about that with you guys but taking my time as I'm sure you can imagine, it's a hard thing to talk about. But tonight, besides my Pop asking a few questions over and over, he was seeming really good. He is on some medication so I'm guessing it's helping him calm down ( will explain what that means another time ).
My dad bought a pavlova for us to have. I was going to take a photo of the whole thing to show you guys but my mind is so full and tired I forgot. I remembered after my Nanny cut and served some of it. So got half at least.
So that also brings me to the next thing, I have notification to do. I'm still not doing so well and dealing with major insomnia. Yet also having difficulties staying awake at times. I really don't know how to explain that. Basically it's going one or the other. Sleep a lot or awake a lot. No in between of feeling refreshed and awake. I don't know what's going on but I am going to lay down after I post this. And will continue with notifications later.
Wishing you all a great day or night. /
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
6 Mar 20
Sorry to hear about him. But happy belated to him.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
7 Mar 20
@VivaLaDani13 kinda sick but not too bad today. You
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@Courtlynn I'm sorry you're unwell! Wishing you to get better soon. I am alright thank you. Unwell myself to be honest. About to try lay down. Almost 3am here.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@Courtlynn Thank you so much. How are you doing?
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 20
@VivaLaDani13 I am sorry, English is not my language, I thought it was your father's birthday
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@LadyDuck Thank you! But it was actually my Pop's birthday as in my grandfather. But thank you jsut the same. The pavlova was nice! I love the fresh fruit on top!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
8 Mar 20
@LadyDuck It's no worries at all! I should have explained as some other people thought the same thing.
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@moffittjc (121729)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Mar 20
Have you seen a doctor about your sleep and insomnia issues? Perhaps a sleep study may shed some light on your predicament. Or, your doctor can prescribe some medicines that will help you with sleep.
Oh, and happy birthday to your Poppy!
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@moffittjc (121729)
• Gainesville, Florida
9 Mar 20
@VivaLaDani13 If you can fix your sleeping issues, you'll feel like a completely different person!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@moffittjc I've not seen a doctor about the sleeping issues but intend to when she is available.
Thank you kindly.
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@JudyEv (342110)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Mar 20
@VivaLaDani13 It is important for carers to take care of themselves or they will also end up sick. There are places where your Poppy could go for respite or day care. None of my business of course - but it's good if you're all aware that help and respite is available.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
8 Mar 20
@JudyEv You're all good Judy! I honestly appreciate your comment. I do agree with you. My Nan is always exhausted but she did at least agree with some doctor that if things become way too much for her, she will get my Pop to go out every now and then. I'm guessing like what you're talking about.
Thank you so much for your concern and support. Means a lot.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@JudyEv Thank you and will do.
Yeah my Nan is looking after him. She has been offered to put him somewhere else but she doesn't want that. Even though she is exhausted, it's not something she wants right now.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
6 Mar 20
Your insomnia is probably because of the tremendous stress you are dealing with concerning your father.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@JohnRoberts My dad isn't the one suffering with dementia. It's my Poppy, my grandfather who is suffering with it.
Oh unless you mean with my dad's foot and all that?
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Mar 20
@VivaLaDani13 Yes, everything.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
18 Mar 20
@CarolDM No worries at all, thank you so much!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
18 Mar 20
@CarolDM Thank you! You too! It's really getting crazy.
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
6 Mar 20
Have a lovely day. I think that your insomnia is due to your fatherĀ“s illness. it is very trying
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@marguicha Thank you very much. It's actually my Pop who is suffering. I meant "Poppy" as in my grandfather. He is the one who had his birthday and is suffering with Dementia.
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
8 Mar 20
@VivaLaDani13 I think that would be a good idea.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@simone10 Thank you! I haven't been regarding my sleeping problems no but when the doctor I like is available, I will be going to see her if this continues.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
8 Mar 20
You are going to disappear soon in the dreamland. You are heading into one of those stages of your sleep cycle. Hope you get proper rest.
Wish Poppy belated birthday from me Good to know that the medications are helping. What did the doc say?
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
9 Mar 20
@Daljinder That pretty much almost happened the other day lol I was questioning myself whether I was dreaming or not. And thank you, I will probably go back to sleep again after my doctor's appointment this afternoon.
I will do that! Do you mean what the doctor said about my Pop?
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@thelme55 Thank you. Hope you have a wonderful day too!
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
7 Mar 20
Happy Birthday to your grandpa. How old is he?
I hope some soothing music help you get to sleep. What about daydreaming.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@yoalldudes Thank you. I'm actually not sure how old he is. I don't like knowing my family's ages.
Daydreaming doesn't help put me to sleep but thank you kindly for the suggestion.
@happylife1 (13404)
• Karachi, Pakistan
7 Mar 20
Wishing happy birth day to your puppy
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@happylife1 Thank you. My "Poppy."
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
7 Mar 20
@KityCat Thank you kindly. Just to confirm, I mean my grandfather. Not my dad.
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