A daughter set their house on fire because of quarantine boredom!!!

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@cacay1 (83327)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
April 6, 2020 10:42pm CST
What kind of human being is this young lady age 17 , grade 11 from the city of Zamboanga ? This teenager said she felt life so tight and suffocating staying inside home for almost two weeks now. She and her mom had a heated argument yesterday afternoon. Her daughter got mad and irritated for her mom hid her motorcycle to disallow her daughter to roam around to bond with her friends despite on quarantine situation. At three o' clock in the afternoon the girl set their home on fire. She is now under the custody of the police and to pay the arson crime. The more she cannot anymore roam around. I think this girl had a bad influence with her peer. or by nature bad. I also had read news that one male teenager committed a suicide for feeling so depressed about quarantine rules. I cannot understand the attitudes of the young people this time. Many lack good manners and right conduct. They like to live full of freedom. They never feel how deadly the virus is. They are senseless and irresponsible. How do you deal your teenage children to avoid boredom at home?
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@LadyDuck (470631)
• Switzerland
7 Apr 20
I am so glad that we had no children, so we never had problems.
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@LadyDuck (470631)
• Switzerland
7 Apr 20
@cacay1 I know that my niece was a pretty good teenager, my parents said that I was a very good girl. I think the parents are to blame.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Apr 20
@LadyDuck , you are right , the parents participate i the becoming of their children. They must befriend their children, attend to their needs , listen to their woes and problems.They should always communicate and talk to them gently.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@LadyDuck , many have baby factories and if worst comes they blamed each other.
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@bbghitte (3294)
• Philippines
7 Apr 20
Oh my, what kind of thinking does one have to really do that! Parents really need to guide their children properly especially these days when all types of resources are at hand and these young minds could easily imitate them.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@bbghitte, many young people this time imitate what they saw in TV dramas, YouTube, videos without thinking actors or performers are paid. They have lots of wrongful freedom
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@bbghitte parents should guide their children in the right way. They need to always communicate with them and ask them if they have problems in school , at work or at peer.
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@bbghitte (3294)
• Philippines
7 Apr 20
@cacay1 Sad truth. I just hope, this lockdown could really bring the family together and would really teach them the proper guidance and the true value of life.
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• India
7 Apr 20
Teenage kids are dependent on technology and friends for emotional support. Problem is the busy schedule of parents. Imagine you only spend 2 or 3 hours with family and 10-12 hours with friends and now you are not allowed to meet your friends. Children's need psychologist right now more than elders.
• India
7 Apr 20
@kepweng if we ask our parents they will say the same thing for us .
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@neha211985, I agree with you. Parents should always communicate with their children to feel no bridge built between them . Young people this time are greatly influenced by technology and somewhat exploited from their peer.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@kepweng , they are badly exploited.
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@thelme55 (76843)
• Germany
7 Apr 20
OMG! Now she will be put in jail and no freedom at all. What a stupid thing to burn her own home.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@thelme55, you may read that news in Star Daily. You'll surely pity the mother homeless this time. Bad daughter.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Apr 20
@thelme55 , yes pitiful mom being disrespected by her daughter. That daughter should have not been born.
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@thelme55 (76843)
• Germany
7 Apr 20
@cacay1 I really pity the mother. Thanks for the info. I will if I can find it.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
7 Apr 20
This is insane.... But yes, teenage people aren't that adapted of staying in one place.... I think parents should make it a point to inculcate certain reading and meditation habits from the childhood itself....
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@Aansh13, parents should always talk to their children, give them challenging tasks and rewards to follow when everything in the planet is okay.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
7 Apr 20
@cacay1 Actually.... Agreed with you
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Apr 20
@Aansh13 , love and patience must be the secondary in a family and primary is God to serve as their spiritual guidance making the holy good.
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• United States
7 Apr 20
what an idiot.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Apr 20
@isweartokira , yes, the best decription of that senseless daughter. She should have not been born.
• United States
8 Apr 20
@cacay1 yikes that's a little harsh. I wouldn't wish someone to not be born. I'm just saying what she did was idiotic
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
7 Apr 20
This young people need to be spiritual so God will guide their thoughts
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@averygirl72, yes true. Parents must teach their children to fear God , teach them to pray and have them the best friends too of their children. Communication between children and parents is so vital so when they grow they'll become useful citizens and obedient children.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
7 Apr 20
The news is very surprising. I think maybe these teenagers are too bored at home, school and society should let them have their own tasks at home, it will be better.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@caopaopai, so true. It's a frustrating news household member set their home on fire. It seems this culprit has mental and attitude problems.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
7 Apr 20
She should be burn along with the house. A total waste of resources to have her around.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@id_peace, how nice hehehe. That daughter lose her mind. She is a selfish daughter. She better had helped her mom in house chores or discover her potential like painting or guitar strumming. There are so many things to avoid boredom. Young people must understand what we have this time is not a one family problem, but worldwide.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
7 Apr 20
Teens are seem to be so different today than when I raised my girls. My girls would never have done such a thing. Unfortunately too many have been given too much freedom.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@HazySue, you are right. They cannot correct their bad attitudes. They cannot even clean their own bedrooms. Why I say so because I visited my student's parents for some counseling. When I entered her bedroom, my goodness so dirty. Dirty clothes scattered around. What she was doing was watching videos. She was so shocked and blushed when saw me in front of her in a very dirty room . After that she changed her attitude. Her mom texted me and was so thankful of my unannounced visit.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Apr 20
There is a rise in domestic violence because of this quarantine.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@JohnRoberts , they should choose, freedom lost or humans lost.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
7 Apr 20
We have to assure them that everything is ok as long as we follow the plan.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@db20747, there are young who listen and there are also stupid. They want to create their own laws. Many young people this time badly influenced by technology done in the wrong way.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
7 Apr 20
This is crazy behavior.
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@yoalldudes, it seems this young lady has mental and attitude problem . No normal being can do this.
@happylife1 (13404)
• Karachi, Pakistan
7 Apr 20
really a very difficult to deal with them now a days
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@cacay1 (83327)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Apr 20
@happylife1, youths this time are far different from the youths of yesterday when internet not yet existed. Library was full of students reading and researching. This time, they can't even organized their own composition, mostly copy and paste. Plagiarism is rampant because they used technology in the wrong way. Many become lazy.
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
7 Apr 20
That's messed up.
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