@justbhem of Mylot did pass away on April 12

@Janet357 (75646)
April 18, 2020 11:34pm CST
I was one of those who wondered where was Bhem. But i simply did not post a discussion about it thinking she might be just taking a break. I know some of you posted a discussion about it too. But then curiousity got the better of me so i checked the link on her profile. It said her name was Chatur Villarta. I checked it on Fb and there I found it. I am deeply saddened that she died last April 12. Here’s the post I saw on fb
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@GoAskAlice (5826)
19 Apr 20
Thank you for letting us know. May she rest in peace. I know that she had many health problems and needed kidney dialysis and help to get to the hospital for it. I looked for the page you showed but it seems that the family may have taken it down (or made it private).
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19 Apr 20
@myklj999 Yes, LOL. Got there eventually (after rotating and enlarging the photo)
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
@myklj999 Thanks for the suggestion. Her posts were sometimes so sad and hard to respond to. What a terrible time she had.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
Welcome. I was also looking for her personal fb account but could not find it.
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@LadyDuck (470823)
• Switzerland
19 Apr 20
Oh NO!! I am so sorry, this is terrible, she was so young and wanted so much to live. I am really, really sad now.
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• China
19 Apr 20
Thank you for sending me the suggestion !
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@LadyDuck (470823)
• Switzerland
19 Apr 20
@changjiangzhibin89 I thought you also knew her.
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@cacay1 (83334)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Apr 20
@LadyDuck, it's a sad news. Yes, you're right, she desires so much to enjoy life. She's too young to die . May she rest in peace.
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@much2say (55320)
• Los Angeles, California
19 Apr 20
Nooooo! I had PMd her not too long ago to see how she was and didn't hear back . . . I am so sad to hear this about Bhem. We know she had suffered so much . . . may she rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (83334)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Apr 20
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
yes. I actually checked her profile from time to time and her last activity was on March 30 which was quite unusual.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Apr 20
She was a very brave girl. R.I.P.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
for how long had she been in this situation?
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 there was a time I was not very active so when I came back I already found her in that situation, I remember she was even raising funds for her dialysis in another site, that was when I had several exchange of messages with her to ask how I could help in my small humble way, that's how I knew her real name and where she was from.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Apr 20
@louievill - That is very sad. People who need dialysis are in a very dire situation. I am sorry she lost her life.
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@cacay1 (83334)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Apr 20
Oh my God that's why u haven't seen her here in mylot. It's a heart breaking. May she rest in peace .
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 Oh my goodness. I am feeling so sad to know this! Her and I spoke often and I was always feeling so bad for everything she had to deal with. Thank you so much for posting this as I have been wondering a lot where she was.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
welcome Dani. To be honest, she is one of the reasons why am sad today. She might not be my friend but somehow I knew her.
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@cacay1 (83334)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 I'm so sad of this news. I been looking for her too here in mylot. May she rest in peace. She suffered a lot.
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• Perth, Australia
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 I'm so sorry. I know what you're saying because I was crying too after reading your post. I'm in shock. The poor thing just wanted to be pain and sick free and live. I'm sad for her and all who knew her.
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@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
19 Apr 20
No wonder I never saw her again here, rest in peace.
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@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 From the beginning I felt she was enduring the pain and she tried to stay up.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 Bhem had kidney disease.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
yes. I dont know anything about her. why she had so many health issues, but she was too young to die.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
19 Apr 20
Sad news, I am just realizing that she was no more posting. May she rest in peace.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 I know that, but I was not very present the months before the confinement and had not seen her posting since. She will be missed.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
19 Apr 20
I am also shocked that she had left us.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
she was one of the active members here.
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• United States
19 Apr 20
Oh my gosh, no way! May she Rest In Peace . I enjoyed chatting with her on myLot.
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• United States
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 very sadden to hear. I went back and checked last communicated with her in March. But she is no longer suffering may she Rest In Peace. She was very kind
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@cacay1 (83334)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Apr 20
@infatuatedbby it's a breaking news.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
Now, she's gone for good:(
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
19 Apr 20
rip, bhem-bhem
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• Germany
19 Apr 20
Thank you for the suggestion.
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• Philippines
20 Apr 20
@m_audrey6788 even if i'm not sure if a member has interacted with her or not, or if they ignore suggested posts, i still forwarded it so it can reach many mylotters
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• Germany
20 Apr 20
@hereandthere I interacted with her but never thought that she`ll be gone this early age of her
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@Deepizzaguy (102088)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
19 Apr 20
I am sorry to learn that a member of our MyLot.com community has passed away,
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
I knew from the very start something happened to her but in just contained myself because i did not want to think such for her.
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• Philippines
21 Apr 20
@Janet357 we were so covered up with the covid19 that most of us didn't knew.
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• Agra, India
19 Apr 20
Omg....this is shocking. She was in deep pain and trouble. I wish now she gets peace wherever she lives.
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• Agra, India
19 Apr 20
@Janet357 yes...I agree. She was really suffering a lot.
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• Agra, India
20 Apr 20
@Janet357 she was suffering from kidney failures and night have scumbbed to her ailments
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
yes. I just did not have the nerve to ask why she had so many health problems, but i was wondering how she got them all
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@ZedSmart (19757)
• Philippines
19 Apr 20
This is sad news. I had thoughts of her the other day because she no longer posts.
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@LeaPea2417 (37336)
• Toccoa, Georgia
20 Apr 20
@ZedSmart I too thought about her the other day because I hadn't seen any posts recently from her.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
yes. it was so unusual for her to be not around.
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@florelway (23282)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Apr 20
am sorry to know of Bhem's passing away. Will surely miss her, I appreciate her courage on how she dealt with her situation. Maybe her family has now missed her presence.
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• Philippines
21 Apr 20
@florelway I hope the mother would miss her presence!
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@Janet357 (75646)
20 Apr 20
she had gone through a lot. almost all aspects if her life had problems except her love.life as she had.a.loving bf
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@florelway (23282)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Apr 20
@Janet357 that's her only support her boyfriend.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
19 Apr 20
My condolences to her Family. May she rest in peace. I`m sure she`s happy now.
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• Germany
20 Apr 20
@Janet357 Yes.
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@Janet357 (75646)
20 Apr 20
no more pain;(
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• China
19 Apr 20
My heart goes out to her ! May she rest in peace !
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• Philippines
19 Apr 20
yes i remembered her. She replies to my discussions. just last week? RIP
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Apr 20
her last activity was on March 30.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Apr 20
Thank you for sharing this to me. I was unaware of Bhem's passing away.
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
That is so sad. Thank you for letting us know.
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
19 Apr 20
Sorry to hear that, my deepest sympathy and condolences. May God give strength to her family.
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@Janet357 (75646)
20 Apr 20
and her mother has also so many health issues. if am not mistaken, bhem was the breadwinner.