How do you forget bad experiences

@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Apr 20

Wow the cutest way

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58472)

• Germany

21 Apr 20

@cacay1 Thanks

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@judithml (405)

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22 Apr 20

That's the right way, and I hope that is always possible if not easy.

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Ken

@kanuck1 (4434)

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21 Apr 20

When I have a bad experience I see what I can learn from it and how I can avoid the same bad experience in the future. If someone has hurt me then I forgive them, move on and forget about it.

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Ken

@kanuck1 (4434)

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22 Apr 20

@judithml There you go! Some evil can be conquered with the good. The evil that can't be conquered with the good must be left in God's hands for him to deal with that kind. May you have success!

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@judithml (405)

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22 Apr 20

That's what I want to do. Some people are just evil and wont change they want to pursue you to defeat you and deplete your energy and time

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@judithml (405)

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6 May 20

@kanuck1 I pray I would!

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Apr 20

How nice to fight back,but doing it is just a waste of time and energy.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Apr 20

@judithml

correct , how nice to have superpower like Cat Woman,lol.

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@judithml (405)

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6 May 20

@cacay1 whatever that power is, I want to have that.

@judithml (405)

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22 Apr 20

Every thing that is worth it is worth fighting for, but we do not always win

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rosé

@mnglsp (3614)

• Philippines

21 Apr 20

I realized that forgiving and forgetting is what we need to achieve happiness after a bad experience. A song said " You must forgive me, I must forgive you..... so let's not bring the past now anymore" and I think that it is right. If we experience a bad thing. Learn from it then back to zero. Then try again.

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@judithml (405)

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6 May 20

@mnglsp True

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@judithml (405)

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22 Apr 20

I think it will be easier if the other person at least is sorry, the real sorry at least. Because that means that you are not alone in starting over. Or if you have to move on that they wont bug you anymore.

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rosé

@mnglsp (3614)

• Philippines

24 Apr 20

@judithml Yes, it is easier that way. But we must accept the fact that not all people are sorry when they have done something wrong.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

21 Apr 20

It's hard to forget the bad things that happen to us.

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@judithml (405)

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22 Apr 20

That's right.

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Raj

@Butterfingers (66583)

• India

22 Apr 20

I like to forgive and forget about it and this gives me immense happiness

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Apr 20

@Butterfingers , wow so great feelings.

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Raj

@Butterfingers (66583)

• India

22 Apr 20

@cacay1 thanks

@dgobucks226 (35635)

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2 May 20

I try to compromise, but I can be stubborn sometimes. I think with me, as I've aged I have been less confrontational and go with the flow more. With age comes wisdom

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@dgobucks226 (35635)

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7 May 20

@judithml Yes, I agree. Well said!

@judithml (405)

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6 May 20

Yes sometimes it seems only thing left to do to settle is compromise and that's after a whole lot of negotiation and losses. But that's the only way to win it seems. Cos the other options cause more pain or suffering.

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Fae Maverick

@Fa_Maverick (9487)

• Australia

22 Apr 20

I may forgive but I'll never forget to forget would be to be a fool. Remembering what someone did to you is smart it means you won't make the same mistakes with them in the future. You dont need to forget what they did to move on. I do this even if they genuinely apologise I just won't bring it up in conversation.

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@judithml (405)

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24 Apr 20

Right, you have a point. If I have to defeat them, I have to remember what they did wrong to not let me and them repeat to me the same mistakes.

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