Our life is not a template at all

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There are cultures in many countries that dictating us of what are we supposed to do if we are at this age. At some point it is becoming standard already just because of the norm or many people are doing it to the extent that because of the differences that we have it is becoming conflict and can cause so much trouble. More so in personal matters there are family members who are having this kind of mentality like a template, especially the parents. The parents itself are the ones who are having a template mentality especially to their children, like their kid should talk at this age and become conversational, they are supposed to be an honor student, they are not supposed to be in love at this age, they can have relationship at this age, and they can marry at this age, more so especially on career they must have a job after they graduated, established career at this kind of age and so on. But then because of the uncontrollable mentality they tend to be disappointed to the point that it is the start of the agony, trouble or conflict in family, friends, marriage or any kind of relationship or even the interaction. It is a cause of insecurity too. No one can dictate what our life should be and the path that we are going. In fact we are not that sure about our future of what come's next. Sometimes too much expectation can ruin our lives. Because of the template mentality it can also damage the self esteem of every person. No wonder why there are multiple weird issues that are becoming worst. We must accept the fact that we are all different in attitude, personality, mentality too that is why we should know how to adapt to each and everyone. We can help each other then and our mind will be more peaceful especially if you don't compare yourself much to other people.