When the focus is on the food

Fried Chicken
By sofs
@sofssu (23662)
May 6, 2020 7:02am CST
I am not so pleased when the focus is on the food. Somehow everyone online and off line seem to be focusing on food these days. I love cooking, but I hate being overly fixated with food. With my younger son being at home 24/7 he is always talking about food. Its always about what is for lunch or dinner or breakfast. He isn't a big eater for all that. Every meal has to be different, cooked from scratch and gourmet. Now that seems to me like over emphasis on food. This has got to do more with the lockdown than the real craving for food, we are seeking comfort in food right now as other physical activities are restricted. What do you think? Do you see a similar increase in food talk around you?
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
6 May 20
I think if he wants that many meals from scratch and gourmet, it's time for him to cook too!
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
He is always willing to help, but this obsession about food all around is what is bugging me.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
@Jessicalynnt Maybe, he isn't the kind to sit in one place, still a teenager, active and sporty.
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• Centralia, Missouri
7 May 20
@sofssu ask him what's up? Is it a way to distract from worries?
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
7 May 20
Yes, the lock down has compelled households to stock up on food. The refrigerator is full. There's not much activity inside the home, aside from watching the news. So people turn to the kitchen, and food. My daughter's baking her first bread today. Mine was a flop the other day. At least your son is eating, others are too picky on food. Ask him to help you. Tell him it is a lesson on culinary arts.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
7 May 20
@sofssu No news yet on my daughter's bread, just a picture of the ingredients. She's using Lurpak butter. That's pretty expensive here in my country. Food is nourishment for me. Embedded in our culture though is deep love for eating. We eat excessively, as if even if the stomach is full, there's still room for dessert.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 May 20
@eileenleyva LOL That was funny. Lurpak.. I have never heard about that butter is it a brand?
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
I have no issues with the cooking its the focus on the food that drives me nuts. My son helps, no issues there either. I am just bored by food, Hope your daughter's bread fares better .
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@much2say (55686)
• Los Angeles, California
6 May 20
Actually I have never really understood how people are sitting around and eating so much during this time. My "prepping" mentality kicked in and I'm more about conserving and eating to stay healthy as much as possible. I know it's so easy to snack when at home, but I'm really trying to teach the opposite here. I'm having my kids to pick healthier choices and have them cook whenever possible. I am still trying to keep the routine of keeping breakfast simple, using up leftovers for lunch, and maybe cooking a fancier dinner depending on the ingredients at hand. I have other things I have to get done around the house too . . . so I can't focus on food all day.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
Now this is something I can relate to, I like the way you put it. I also think that the lockdown and the slowing of the economy should make us think about reducing consumption whether it is food or other things.
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@much2say (55686)
• Los Angeles, California
7 May 20
@sofssu This has been my way of thinking since the beginning . . . maybe the things my parents told me about their childhood have finally sunk in. I was taught to not even waste a single grain of rice. Now I truly understand what they were saying. And yes, this is not a time to splurge . . . conserving now could save you down the road. Oh my gosh - I am listening to the new right now . . . they are doing a segment on people overspending during this time .
@LadyDuck (471573)
• Switzerland
6 May 20
I have always planned my menus, I am doing as usual and I cook more or less as usual.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
Is it because the lockdown hasn't affected your activities so much?
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@sofssu (23662)
8 May 20
@LadyDuck I guessed that, for the active others they just don't know how to channel their energy.
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@LadyDuck (471573)
• Switzerland
7 May 20
@sofssu We are both retired from 5 years already, our life has not changed a lot after the lockdown.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
7 May 20
@sofssu Maybe he is bored is why his focus is on food. Being stuck inside is very hard. Food these days does not interest me once like it did. I eat because I eat two meals a day. I do not have to worry about children. My cat also eats two meals a day. When he went to school and was active did he want something different to eat all the time or accept what you made?
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
He doesn't really eat a lot, it is just the boredom of having to stay confined to one place. Basically it isn't about my son, it is the focus on the food all around that is annoying me.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
7 May 20
@sofssu I figured that was the reason he wants food.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
6 May 20
Yes, of course, it is eaten out of boredom, people have all the time in the world at home and satisfy their family members in various delicacies. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it, at least the junk food is not eaten, finally a little change in home cooking (at least here)
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
I have almost always cooked meals from scratch, I love cooking but I am getting annoyed with all the food talk. Even friend call you to get recipes.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 May 20
@LowRiderX Hmm that may be true.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
7 May 20
@sofssu I understand. Look, it is better to talk about food than about a virus, this topic is already on top of my head
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
6 May 20
You think more about the food when you don't have anything else to do. I was also thinking of food when constrained to home during lockdown period.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 May 20
Yeah that was what I was trying to get at. I don't seem to be liking it though.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
6 May 20
I channel my mind and energy to other things besides food.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 May 20
That is a good thing to do, but I need to cook all those meals. LOL
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
6 May 20
Some people overdo the food talk. I post food photos of my creations at times.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
Food is fine , not the obsession with it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
7 May 20
@sofssu I agree!
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
6 May 20
We have to plan it a bit more since we haven't eaten anywhere but home for so long.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 May 20
Well that could be a good reason.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
6 May 20
Yes. My food exploration has increased.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 May 20
I think that is the case with many others as well.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
7 May 20
@sofssu Yes.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
6 May 20
Food is a popular subject that people are interested in.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 May 20
Hmm I need to agree with that, a bit too popular.
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@Janet357 (75646)
6 May 20
Hmm i see it here on mylot and I love talking about it too.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 May 20
Enjoy, you can have your fill here I guess. Food isn't really my favorite subject.
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
6 May 20
I don't eat more than before but i cook more often. When i am at home am trying to eat cooked food.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 May 20
That is the case with me. I am cooking all three meals and more LOL