How can I solve this?

Sri Lanka
May 8, 2020 1:24pm CST
I always try to help others and also thinking about others. But eventhough many times I helped people some are vey cunning and cheating me. Anyway I can't hate them. But I feel so sad. So I need to resolve it. How can I stop thinking about others too much. Please tell about your ideas, solution and your experience, if u have.
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@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
8 May 20
Stop helping others.
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• Sri Lanka
8 May 20
Thanks Dear for your advice. But that is very difficult to me. Because when I see some peoples my heart is melting.
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@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
8 May 20
• Sri Lanka
8 May 20
@mrki444 Sorry. It was my mistake .
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@reehamk (433)
• Qatar
9 May 20
Advice them and please continue to be generous.
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• Sri Lanka
9 May 20
I will do that ...Appreciate your advice.
@kanuck1 (4434)
9 May 20
Maybe, you need to be more careful when helping other people.
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• Sri Lanka
9 May 20
Yes. I think you are right.
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• Maseru, Lesotho
8 May 20
You have to research your personal makeup. You could be EMPHATIC, meaning you are sensitive to other people's energy...their unspoken needs. Such a person would often be so overwhelmed by such invisible burden that they often have to get away from the presence of many people. It could be interesting to discover this given ability to know how others feel or need.
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• Sri Lanka
8 May 20
Thank you very much for your advice Madam. Appreciate lot.
@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
9 May 20
Still, don't stop being a good person. Don't stop helping others. Yes, it'll make you sad that they still cheat on you been you do good things to them, still, it is not enough reason to stop helping or to stop being a good person. Here, the old people always say that if someone throws you a stone, throw them bread as an act of revenge Means, even they do bad things to you, as a revenge still do good.
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• Sri Lanka
9 May 20
Yes you are right. I will try that. Appreciate your advice.
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@ExplorewtMe (6332)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 May 20
As they said in a plain put your oxygen mask before helping others. So you sort your priority first.