Should I get married now?
By Akash Ray
@akashray1990 (327)
May 9, 2020 11:36am CST
Hey friends..
I am touching 30 this year and my family is killing me to get married.
Sometime I think I should settle down and then again I feel like No..Not now.
I am very confused. Is it really a good idea to get married now.
I dont know. Its like the biggest decision of our life and I dont want to rush it.
I am not in any relationship right now, but sometimes when I get too lonely, I feel like its better to be married. At least I will have someone to share everything.
What do you guys think?
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7 responses
@KeepCalmdrinktea (29)
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11 May 20
Your gut instinct is the right answer on this one. I believe that marriage is only something you should do when you are 100% sure that is no one else for you and that life without that person wouldn't be worth living. Not being in a relationship, that makes it extremely difficult to get married, pre arranged marriages are a cultural thing which is either something you believe in or you don't. My advice is to find someone to give your heart to that deserves it and get married when you want to. P.s. I'm 35 single and not married, and I'm quite happy.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
9 May 20
it is now what I think.Is what you think.That is up to you.Not us.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
9 May 20
Honestly?
From a Western prospective? Nope, I wouldn't...
Every culture is different, however.
@arunima25 (87771)
• Bangalore, India
9 May 20
You should have a much deeper reason other than loneliness. It's your life and you should have the say or at least the major say in this decision. It's a big milestone and a big decision. You can not rush.
@Helikaputo (484)
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9 May 20
Wise men say only fools rush in... It's a saying I first got from a song ..
. Don't marry because of loneliness. ... You must have a deeper reason . Otherwise you will struggle to sustain that marriage in times of trouble,,
@Aleskys (5879)
• Venezuela
9 May 20
Getting married so as not to feel alone is not the idea of ??a marriage, you get married if you want to share "life" with other people you love, want to have a family, and more than a wife to be a life partner in good times and bad. .
