So many marriages
By Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27612)
United States
May 10, 2020 2:44pm CST
Mine son just stopped at home on his way to go to see his mom. We talked a little and he brought up the fact that his mom was getting a divorce and with that I thought, wow I picked some real winners.
So for that those that do not know I have been married and divorced twice and although that is a lot to some people it is nothing compared to my two ex's. My first wife I admit I married to young and was not ready for it. It barely lasted over 2 years. The second lasted 8 years.
My first wife, our marriage was her first but she has since went on to married and divorce a total of 5 times. My second wife, this was both our 2nd marriage and she has since gotten married and will be divorcing for a 3rd time.
Seems to them that many marriages is the way to go. I am done with that and would never get married again. I tried twice and what I have learned is that it is not for me. I must not be good at it so I will not try again.
I don't know why I talk of this I guess I just found it odd that between the two of them they have married 8 times and failed each time. I guess I feel sorry for them that they can not find love in themselves so they seek it out and fail time after time.
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@Allionnazxyl (279)
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11 May 20
So the problem is in theirs, not yours. Just wait for your time, it will come.
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@Bensen32 (27612)
• United States
11 May 20
@Allionnazxyl I disagree. I have been doing just fine for quite a few years without a committed relationship.
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@Allionnazxyl (279)
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11 May 20
@Bensen32 Then at least get a partner to look after you somehow if you don't want to get married. You need someone to be with while watching the sun rises.
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@amitkokiladitya (171928)
• Agra, India
11 May 20
I wonder ...8 is a huge number. How is that possible for anyone
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@amitkokiladitya (171928)
• Agra, India
11 May 20
@Bensen32 ohh..I thought the number was for a single person
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@Bensen32 (27612)
• United States
11 May 20
@amitkokiladitya LOL, that would certainly be a lot for one person LOL
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@Courtlynn (67094)
• United States
11 May 20
People jump into marriages way too quick, alot of the time. Others just don't pick good partners. (Whether married or not) so they go from one relationship to another. Especially since alot of people don't seem to be okay being alone
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@Courtlynn (67094)
• United States
11 May 20
@Bensen32 I mean, it's not that they can't. They just don't want to so they settle for anything and anyone.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
10 May 20
I have never been married. I balance the stats lol!
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