Finally Talked to my Uncle's Nurse

@CarolDM (203422)
Nashville, Tennessee
May 11, 2020 2:58pm CST
I wrote about my uncle going into quarantine last week (nursing home) after testing positive for COVID-19. He has a new room number and I have been calling every day, several times a day to talk to him. Never an answer. As some know, the step-daughter did not add me to the call list, so the nurses cannot tell me anything. Today I talked to the CNA that answered the phone. Explained my situation, how far away I am, etc. She put me on hold to get the charge nurse. After holding twenty minutes, the nurse came to the phone. She asked several questions, who are you, your relation, etc. Finally she told me how he was doing. He ran a fever over the weekend. But the fever is gone today. He will be re-tested in one week (Thursday) and when he tests negative for COVID, he will be taken out of quarantine and back to his regular room. That was all I needed to know and I thanked her very much. His good physical health is helping him fight this virus. I hope he continues to do well. The talk made me smile.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
11 May 20
Yes I remember you wrote about that. Wonderful news, I'm glad for him and for you, it'll be all right, I believe!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
Yes I was excited, I have not talked to him since last week. I hope so. Thanks.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
@LowRiderX I have no idea. I have not talked to him since he went into quarantine. Today it was only the nurse. I will keep trying every day to call. He will not move out of quarantine until his test is negative.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
11 May 20
@CarolDM When will you have a chance to talk to him again? When did he move him to the regular room?
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@snowy22315 (180361)
• United States
11 May 20
That is great he is doing well. You must feel relieved.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
You have no idea. No word since Thursday.
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@FourWalls (67703)
• United States
12 May 20
I’m glad to hear he’s doing well (considering). Maybe he could ask for you to be added to the call list?
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
Thank you, I was so relieved. You hear nothing and you think the worst. I have even been reading stories online in the city where he is, trying to get any information about him. The step-daughter is in charge. Long story. She has put it off for this reason and that reason, she is buy, etc. I only call or text her as a last resort. The last excuse I got was when the pandemic is over. Duh, this is the most important time to be on the list. Ok, sorry. Rant over.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
11 May 20
I’m so happy you were able to talk to your uncle’s nurse. Things sound good.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
11 May 20
@CarolDM I'm happy for you and your uncle!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
@DianneN Thank you so much, me too.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
I was so happy and it is good news for today. I will take it.
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@JudyEv (339433)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 May 20
It's great that you were able to get a few answers.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
Yes it was a relief.
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11 May 20
That's brilliant! When I was able to talk on the phone to my step Granddad to find out how he's been doing I was so pleased to hear his voice! He had a nasty cough for a couple of weeks but he shook it off, stubborn Yorkshire man!! Crazy as this sounds my Dad was told that a cure for corona virus or at least respiratory problems is to eat 6 raw radishes 3 times a day for a week and see how that goes until you feel better. This advice came from a pharmacist.
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
Glad you talked to your Grandfather. I didn't talk to my uncle but glad to get this news. Never heard about that cure.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
@KeepCalmdrinktea Thank you, it was a huge relief. And welcome to myLot.
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11 May 20
@CarolDM well I don't know if it is a cure but certainly this pharmacist seems to believe in raw radishes. I am pleased that you at least got to know how your uncle is doing. When being without contact and living so far away it must be a worrying time for you. And glad that he is doing better.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
11 May 20
So happy for you that you finally got to talk to a nurse.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
I am so relieved, you just do not know.
@wolfgirl569 (105819)
• Marion, Ohio
11 May 20
Glad he is doing good.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
Thanks me too.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
11 May 20
That was such good news and good "heart" medicine for you. He has lots of us praying for him.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
I was so relieved, you have no idea the worrying I have been doing. Thank you.
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• United States
11 May 20
I'm happy you were able to get news about your uncke. Hope he can beat the virus and return to his room.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
He has been on my mind 24/7 since he was quarantined. Thanks.
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@NJChicaa (119514)
• United States
11 May 20
I'm glad you got some news about him
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
Thanks I was relieved.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
12 May 20
@CarolDM That was not nice of her to put you on the call list. I am so glad you got to find out how he is doing. I hope he tests negative. I am so glad she could put a smile on your face.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
12 May 20
@CarolDM So what happens when you call again to check on him will you get through?
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
@Hannihar I have no idea. We will see.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
She did not put me on the list. .I got lucky with the nurse.
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@LindaOHio (177898)
• United States
11 May 20
What a relief! I hope he makes a full recovery soon.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 May 20
I hope so too, it sounded like good news. The 20 minute hold was worth it.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 May 20
I'm glad you got at least some information. I hope he will be fine.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
Thanks, I hope so too.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
12 May 20
I am so sorry, I didn't know he tested positive. Did he get it from one of the staff? I'm happy he is doing better
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
16 May 20
@CarolDM I hope he improves and will keep him in my prayers.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
Who knows at this point. Residents and staff are positive. Thank you.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 May 20
@simone10 Thank you.
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
12 May 20
I am so glad you were able to get some comforting information. My cousin was able to visit my aunt yesterday in a tent they put up outside. There was a rope dividing them. It was a chilly day, but she got fresh air and a visit.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
I was relieved. Have not seen him in months.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
12 May 20
Terrible that you couldn't just get an answer, and you had to jump hoops to get it. Glad his fever is gone.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
That seems to be the way it goes. Thank you.
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@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
12 May 20
I am glad you were able to talk to the nurse. I hope he will recover soon.
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@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
12 May 20
@CarolDM you are welcome.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
I hope so too. Thanks.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
12 May 20
that has to be stressful I am so sorry you had to go through that.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
It has been a 24/7 worry for sure.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
@DocAndersen Hoping for a good outcome.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
12 May 20
@CarolDM sorry about that - caring for aging family members is painful
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
12 May 20
I'm praying for your uncle. May he get well soon.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 May 20
Thank you very much, that is kind.
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