Girlfriend / Wife VS Mum

Singapore
November 29, 2006 6:27pm CST
who do you listen to whenever they had conflicts? Would you like them to stay together even if they are quarreling all the time and you are sqeeze in between? i need advice as im the one that is being sandwiched... :S Please Help
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@abhiroop85 (2826)
• Scottsdale, Arizona
30 Nov 06
nice problem to deal with,just leave da place buddy
• Singapore
30 Nov 06
thanks.. .
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
30 Nov 06
which is it wife or girlfriend? anyway You should not let no one come between you and your Mother Your Mother will always be there for you. now you need to sit down and talk to both of them. If there is a problem that might as will except each other. I know it's hard. but Put your foot down and tell both of them what you mean! if they love you. they will understand how you feel.
• Singapore
30 Nov 06
yeah, i was thinking abt that too, i just duno how to bring across the msg
@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
30 Nov 06
Maintaining third reserve makes the issue clinched. You can show warning with the third party, so that wife & Mum will be silenced and adjusted meanwhile.
• Singapore
30 Nov 06
how am i going to pass my message to them? please advise..
@niz_hash (72)
• India
30 Nov 06
I think u should listen to your mother cuz she was the one who bore u fer nine months and brought u up. she was the one who took all the pain to make sure u get all da comforts in life. U shouldnt let sum girl who comes into ur life all of a sudden to take over and destroy u n ur mothers relationship. A mother will never ever do ne thin dat will harm her child. N 1 more thing "The greatest love is a mother's; then a dog's; then a sweetheart's” Polish Proverb
@niz_hash (72)
• India
30 Nov 06
I think u should listen to your mother cuz she was the one who bore u fer nine months and brought u up. she was the one who took all the pain to make sure u get all da comforts in life. U shouldnt let sum girl who comes into ur life all of a sudden to take over and destroy u n ur mothers relationship. A mother will never ever do ne thin dat will harm her child. N 1 more thing "The greatest love is a mother's; then a dog's; then a sweetheart's” Polish Proverb
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
30 Nov 06
Try to know what is the matter which is causing conflict between them. If you think you can solve them, then resolve the matter taking both of them in account. Never get angry and involve in their quarrel. It will make the situation more worse. If you think you have tried evetythin and problem is still not resolving, then keep your wife away from your mum. But not to forget one thing mate, your mum is the one who was with you right from the moment you entered this world, so its your duty to take every care not hurt her and provide her every comfort.
@harsh3856 (146)
• India
30 Nov 06
its a tricky question...would decide then only
• Australia
30 Nov 06
Never the mum she will always cause trouble im a girl so i know i would always lstin to my partner
@mpvengat (155)
• India
30 Nov 06
listen to the right word not the person who speaks it.