Living with a Narcissist
By lisa Hoover
@heavene (9)
May 12, 2020 10:32am CST
Anyone live with a Narcissist?
I use to be the life of the party and so much fun to hang out with. All these mind games he plays are really starting to make me feel as if I am ugly, worthless and stupid! I just want out of this horrible relationship :( My job is on hold due to the coronavirus outbreak. I could go on writing about my life although I am not here for pity. I would love to talk with others who has experienced living with a narcissist and would love to learn how you escaped.
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
12 May 20
My youngest daughter told her partner to go out of her house and stay out just a couple of months before the outbreak of the virus. She is seeing a psychologist though.
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
12 May 20
@heavene She did and she is happy alone now.
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@heavene (9)
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12 May 20
@marguicha I am glad your Daughter has took the first step.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 May 20
I know exactly how it feels bcuz my husband is a narcissist
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 May 20
Welcome to Mylot! I will be praying for your living situation.
The way I escaped? We found Jesus together, He changed everything.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
14 May 20
Go out and find a better place wherein you feel comfortable. If you can't, bear it to the end.
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@jefferson126 (3316)
• Shenzhen, China
13 May 20
Sorry to hear your experience,actually,i lived with a narcissistic classmate during college time,to be honest,i cannot get along with a narcissist,thus i moved out from dormitory afterward.usually,a narcissist is also selfish,they pay much attention to themselves,so seldom care for others.@heavene,i know how are you feeling now,wish you are freed from unpleasant circumstance.Good luck.
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@17gracemalealea (252)
• Maseru, Lesotho
13 May 20
Living with a narccist is spiritually, socially? and psychologically challenging. First you have to understand their behaviour; that they get some sort of pleasure for achieving to annoy, offend and cause pain to others. Because you can't win, you have to develop a defence mechanism wherein you could maintain your sanity or choose to love yourself by moving out of the situation or relationship.
@judithml (405)
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18 May 20
I may have a narcissist friend/rival/enemy. Bec they are also playing mental , emotional, psycho games with me.
@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
12 May 20
hi welcome to MyLot.
living with narcissist..hmm sometimes my friend told me that i'm narcissist person.i like to praise myself in front of them but just for a joke. since i don't put it in my mind though.
if your life partner is categorized as severe narcissistic, better you said you agree on his opinion and don't take it to heart every word his said to you. think positively
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