Unexpected Call

Philippines
May 25, 2020 12:22pm CST
So I received a call from my ex-boyfriend earlier after a decade. Well, I’m not expecting from him after we broke up. It’s just I’m not OK having friends with exes He told me that he dreamt about me and misses me so much. I was like, OK. Should I tell him to bug off or just ghost him out
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
26 May 20
Well did it end mutually? It's good to have friends then enemies...this up to you what you'll do.
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
26 May 20
@unsulliedcatt Glad to help. Hope for good times ahead!
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• Philippines
27 May 20
@oahuwriter thank you
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• Philippines
26 May 20
You gotta point there...I think he has problem so like what you said it’s good to have friends than enemies
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@askme123 (6150)
25 May 20
Well that depends on if you still love him or miss him too. If you have no feelings for him then avoid and ignore.
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• Philippines
25 May 20
I don’t usually befriend with exes. So there’s erky feeling...you know that feeling? though, I didn’t tell him that I’m not OK in this set-up. I don’t have feelings with him and I made that clear.
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@askme123 (6150)
25 May 20
@unsulliedcatt he probable going through a rough time and looking someone to use
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• Philippines
25 May 20
@askme123 that’s what I’m thinking too ( in a good way )...
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
28 May 20
Bug off, yes, tell him to.
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• Philippines
28 May 20
I already draw the line. Told him can’t be his gf. We can stay friends
@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
26 May 20
hi.. is he already have new gf? i had experience this too long time ago. i ignore and try not to close with him.
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@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
27 May 20
@unsulliedcatt back to you then. are you still comfortable around him? or are you allowed him as a friend?
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• Philippines
26 May 20
I didn’t know if he does...
• Philippines
27 May 20
@iniaku we’re casually talking...just like a friend.
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@reehamk (433)
• Qatar
26 May 20
Ghost him out.
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@reehamk (433)
• Qatar
26 May 20
@unsulliedcatt just remember those things that he have done why you guys broke up and you'll know why I say so..lol.
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• Philippines
26 May 20
@reehamk he moved to diff country. And since I’m not OK in a long distance relationship we decided to call it off...even if it’s against his.
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• Philippines
26 May 20
Why do you say so?
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 May 20
Hope you get good life again..
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• Philippines
27 May 20
Hoping for the better
@pumpkinjam (8767)
• United Kingdom
26 May 20
While I am friends with some exes, I would find it odd for one to contact after so long, especially if it was unexpected. Why would he wait for a decade to tell you he misses you? You could ignore him or you could try and find out his real intentions.
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• Philippines
26 May 20
I know right...after 10 years! I think it will be better to just be friends with him...
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
26 May 20
Time to let go in my opinion.
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