It's been a busy few days
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (339930)
Rockingham, Australia
May 30, 2020 6:51pm CST
We’ve had a busy few days as we hosted a wake for a friend on Friday. The couple had lived nearby until a few years ago. The wife became very sick soon after Christmas and passed away a week or so ago.
She had wanted to be buried in the small country cemetery which is shown in the photo. The ti-tree there has been trimmed into varying shapes but it could hardly be called topiary in the real sense of the word.
Although it drizzled through the committal, everyone had umbrellas so it the rain wasn’t a big deal. A chapel service had been held in Bunbury (Western Australia) before we all made our way out to the cemetery.
We had twelve people stay overnight. We utilised our caravan and our friend’s mobile home. Two men slept on camp stretchers in the lounge. Some of the family hadn’t seen each other for some time so it was good that they were able to gather here and share memories.
The last of the guests leave today and we’ll be back to ‘normal’.
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28 responses
@snowy22315 (180663)
• United States
31 May 20
I am sure that whole thing was very hard.
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@snowy22315 (180663)
• United States
31 May 20
@JudyEv That is good. I am sorry about your friend though..
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Jun 20
@snowy22315 It happened very quickly. It hardly seems real.
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@Deepizzaguy (102799)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
31 May 20
Sorry for the loss of life for your friend.
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@Deepizzaguy (102799)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1 Jun 20
@JudyEv You are welcome.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
31 May 20
Here no burial are allowed, just cremations..
You ste good people!
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
31 May 20
Feel sorry for the loss of your friend. She lived a good and fruitful life. Sweet memories is what keeps us going.
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
31 May 20
It's always good to be busy....they say Idle Mind is Devil's Workshop.
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
31 May 20
@JudyEv My apologies...I quoted out of context. But my heart really bleeds for the husband. He must be missing his beloved very much. We, men, may appear tough externally, but internally we aren't half as tough as women - and don't ask me how I know it - I am a man too.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Jun 20
@amirev777 The husband had such a lot to organise and some of the family don't see a lot of each other or see eye to eye when they do meet so we were very pleased that the day went off as well as it did.
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@LindaOHio (178568)
• United States
31 May 20
I'm sorry you lost your friend. I'm glad you had a lot of people around to support you.
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@LindaOHio (178568)
• United States
31 May 20
@kepweng Most of my friends are online too!
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
31 May 20
i love the topiary!
last year we had my daughter's wedding, it took a month to get life back to normal.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
1 Jun 20
@JudyEv it took forever, but, the happy day was worth the pain!
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
1 Jun 20
And I've been busy for the last two days, I've used the opportunity to spend as much time outside as possible, I'm going back to normal
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
1 Jun 20
@JudyEv After all that has befallen us (the whole world) I could hardly wait for it to end and for me to be able to get out
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@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
1 Jun 20
So kind of you to open your home at this time.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Jun 20
Thanks. We made use of so much stuff that mostly only comes out for concerts so it wasn't too bad. There is always a lot of cleaning after in a way. I've washed four sets of sheets and four tablecloths. The weather is a bit iffy so I used the dryer but now I'm going to need to iron them all. Usually I don't iron the sheets but they're really crumpled.
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@ptrikha_2 (46947)
• India
31 May 20
Sorry to know of the loss. It is indeed very sad to see a close one passing away. I hope that folks maintained distance at the chapel service.
Has lockdown totally opened in Australia?
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@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
31 May 20
I’m pleased your friend had a good send off, and you all managed to get together.
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