We are planning to try to have a baby soon

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I debated on writing about this here but I wanted to tell people without anyone I know finding out yet. My fiancé and I want to have a baby together. I’m 36 (37 in August) and he’s 34. My daughters 16, his son is 14 and my son is 12. The age gap will be huge but I always wanted more kids. After my children’s father died I never thought I’d ever have any more. We are planning the wedding for July 31, 2021. If we wait until after that to have a baby I’ll be 38 or older when the baby is born. So we decided to try soon instead then put off the wedding until the following year. If I’m unable to conceive then we’ll stick to the wedding in 2021. He and I are both really excited about this. We are hoping if we do have a baby it’s a little girl. He wants it to look just like me. I want to wait three months to wait until the medicines I’ve been taking are out of my system. I’m still on the Celexa for depression but May 31st I stopped taking Lamictal and the birth control pill I was on. I’m doing great so far. Having a little more hyperactivity and ocd without the lamictal but not too bad. He wants to only wait two months before trying. I need to do some research. Photo is a decoration I saw at the jewelers where I got my ring resized this weekend. My ring was a 5 1/2 and they sized it down to 4 1/2. It fits so much better.