Do you think being frank a justifiable reason to ignore a person?

@Shauibee (610)
June 8, 2020 7:56am CST
It feels awful being ignored by a person when you are sincere and honest in dealing with them. Well, at least, acknowledging their sincerity and honesty is the best respond you could ever give. Have you ever been ignored? How do you deal about it?
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16 responses
Deepika Sharma
@DeepikaGoodluck (854)
• India
8 Jun 20
Yes sometimes people ignored us too. Then we should ignore them too.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Yes of course we ignore them too. But there are instances that we need to interact with them on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for dropping by here. See you around!
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Deepika Sharma
@DeepikaGoodluck (854)
• India
8 Jun 20
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Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
8 Jun 20
Yes...I completely agree. It really hurts a lot.
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Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
8 Jun 20
@Shauibee yes.. Especially when you have done alot for that person
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
@amitkokiladitya Exactly! In that case we have to care or love them from a distance.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Yes especially if that person is important to you. Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
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GreatMartin
@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
10 Jun 20
I give what I get--I ignore them!
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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10 Jun 20
Cool! Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
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John Murphree
@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
8 Jun 20
It depends on. on the relationship to me.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Can you please elaborate your answer? Why it depends on the relationship? Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for dropping by here.
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Anne GS
@Shunnan (2106)
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8 Jun 20
sometimes i have my pride too. If they ignored me i wil ignored them too.so what? anyway of course this not a good idea to respond them but as a human being we should respect ourselves too.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Yes, respect because we value ourself. Thank you for sharing your thought and dropping by here. See you around!
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Heleiynah
@heleiynah (1)
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8 Jun 20
Yes, and I don't care, but if the person is so important to me then, I will have a conversation with her and settle everything, but I won't assume that everything will be okay that fast. I will still set up some guards and protect myself. Reality bites, people change and I don't deserve to be taken on an emotional roller coaster for weeks, months or years.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Very well said. A wound can be healed, but the scar will remain forever. Thanl you for sharing your thoughts and for dropping by here. See you around!
simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
8 Jun 20
I ignore them too
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
I can do that too! Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
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Optimum Health Tips
@supasupa (136)
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8 Jun 20
@Shauibee welcome
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
8 Jun 20
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jun 20
Only once when a person owed me money. I never loan any money to anyone anymore.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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12 Jul 20
Oh that's not nice to ignore by someone who owed you money. That person is ungrateful, never loan to them ever again. Thank you for sharing your thought nd for dropping by here. See you around!
Sharon
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
11 Jun 20
I want my friend to be honest with me, even if it hurts. I would never ignore them for that.
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Sharon
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
15 Jun 20
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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11 Jun 20
True friends will tell you the truth because they truely care for you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for dropping by here. See you around!
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
11 Jun 20
Yes its awful, we should do the same as we have no option
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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12 Jul 20
Yes, do the same to them as the last resort. Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
Shiva
@Shiva49 (26763)
• Singapore
11 Jun 20
I have seen all types. It is said "it takes all kinds to make a world". Initially, I used to be hurt when someone purposely ignored me but over time I came to the conclusion it is their problem, not mine. I just move on. Thankfully, they are a minority - siva
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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12 Jul 20
I like your reasoning, it might be their problem and moving on from it is the best option you can do. Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
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Fae Maverick
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
8 Jun 20
I hate being ignored but then I remember that the person ignoring me is petty and childish and that amuses me so I get on with my life and forget about them as they clearly have forgotten about me. This isn't about a particular person.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Good idea...to liken them as a child with tantrums. In that way, you are thinking better than them. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for dropping by here. See you around!
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@supasupa (136)
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8 Jun 20
Many times I have been ignored even hated for telling the truth.but I don't take it to heart because my conscious is clear.its better than lying to please
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Yes, be yourself. We cannot please everybody. Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
frederick sawada
@papiisawada (54)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 20
my dad always ignored me when i wasn't strong enough to lay a hand to him. he seek me as a failure, and even don't recognize me as a child anymore. he is good at karate and baji quan.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
Your father wants you to be as good as him in karate and baji quan? Can you tell me about baji quan? Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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8 Jun 20
@papiisawada Oh i see. Isn't martial arts are used for defense only and not to hurt people intentionally? Good that you can control your self from hurting others.
frederick sawada
@papiisawada (54)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 20
yeah he said if i fail to do so. i fail to protect my life. thus my life is useless. bajiquan is a martial arts, used to effectively paralyzed opponent, like krav maga. as a child, i don't want to hurt another people. even him. see you :)
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G
@freelancermariagrace (28588)
• Philippines
8 Jun 20
Yes, it feels terrible for sure.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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12 Jul 20
Yes, it does. Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
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Jayanth
@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
9 Jun 20
I don't mind someone ignoring me. But I would certainly ask the person for his strange behaviour and if there has been some thing that has hurt him on account of something I said or did.
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Shaui
@Shauibee (610)
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12 Jul 20
I agree with you, asking the person for the the reason of such behaviour is the quickest way to reolve an issue if there is any. Thank you for sharing your thought and for dropping by here. See you around!
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