Keep Your Cool / myLot

Philippines

June 8, 2020 9:12am CST

When you have a conversation with someone that ends up into an argument then you try to take things lightly and keep your cool in explaining your side in a most decent manner but to no avail so you just decided to keep silent to prevent further arguments yet your silence stirs up anger and you're misunderstood. whoa! this is insane! trying to ponder if I'm at fault and I am the one who misunderstands the situation. tsk tsk... I'm about to lose my patience, this is driving me nuts but I should be more understanding I believe. All is well.

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6 responses

DianneN

@DianneN (247186)

• United States

8 Jun 20

I walk away. It's not worth the aggravation to me and arguing solves nothing if one of the party doesn't budge.

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bestie

@bestie (3272)

• Philippines

9 Jun 20

Sometimes I do that...walk away but then of course I'm still the bad one if I do walk away(sigh)

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@freelancermariagrace (28050)

• Philippines

8 Jun 20

Well, as for me, I can’t keep my cool whenever I am feeling upset or I am in the middle of an argument. Maybe because I got tired of people and I don’t know how to communicate well.

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bestie

@bestie (3272)

• Philippines

9 Jun 20

Yeah..you're at the point that you're fed up already and you just wanna walk away and want them to leave you alone.

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ingrid

@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

10 Jun 20

i try to let the person understand what i mean. if she continues to ignore what i tell her and prefers to ignore me, it is either i talk to her in a loud voice, or think that we are not 'on the same level' so i leave her.

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