A married co-worker wants to go out with me for drinks

You are already tempted, so you should not do it. If you love your wife and don't want her to do the same to you, stay away from this co-worker. Don't throw away all you have with something so sudden.

Don't go! You've already said that you are both married and she is attracted to you, and you guys have flirted. You're already treading in some dangerous waters here. Be faithful to your spouse. Even if "nothing happens" you know that the intentions are not pure. Tell her that you cannot go but perhaps another night you two could get together with your spouses for drinks. If she is pure in her intentions then it could make for a fun night out with your spouse and co-worker. If she is not pure in her intentions then she will not be interested in going out for drinks with your respective spouses. You made a vow to your spouse and she made one to hers, you need to respect that and refrain from going. Don't lead her on. Make it clear that you are not available and are married.

wanna have a one night stand? if so, go ahead. If not so, retreat.otherwise you will get into the troble.

I say run! This is a dangerous set up. If you do go, make sure its a group and you aren't alone with her. It may be totally innocent, but you sense that she likes you - not a good sign. What if she has an insanely jealous husband that decides you are the one making the moves on her?

just based you two`s decision.maybe something, maybe nothing. If you do not want to have something with her ,just give up.

then why did u marry if u r kind of a person who cant control himself/herself. wat dangerous? u r human n plz do hav humanity n be good to ur wife. thx.

I say don't do it. You will get in trouble with your wife and she will get in trouble with her husband. Why take the chance. Good luck!