I'm not normal

United States
June 14, 2020 9:41am CST
This may come as a shock to many of you, but I'm not normal. And neither are you. None of us are normal, but nor are we abnormal. Normal simply doesn't exist in regards to a person, no matter how much we might attribute to "normalcy". This has been a nonsensical ramble brought to you by yours truly. Proceed with your day, but ya know, not as normal...
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
14 Jun 20
If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be. -Maya Angelou-
3 people like this
• United States
14 Jun 20
I have never heard that quote, but I love it! Thanks for sharing it with me.
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
14 Jun 20
What's normal to me might not be to others. I am normal but my normalcy is not normal for others. Other day I found one normal talk very abnormal...I can go on rambling and that is quite normal with me. I know it doesn't sound normal to you.
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• United States
14 Jun 20
I don't know, rambling is something I've very good at...
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
15 Jun 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum You are my kind of normal
@sallypup (61563)
• Centralia, Washington
14 Jun 20
What is normal anyway? Depends on who you are near and their perceptions, I guess. I was the only female in the water aerobics class who did not wear make up or have their nails messed with and my hair was not helmet short. To them I was the odd ball. To me, they were the odd ball. I went back East to see relatives. My brother's ex yelled: "You're the one with the animals!" when she saw me. And inside, I yelled back: "You're the one with the curtains drawn to keep natural light out!!" Normal is what??
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• United States
14 Jun 20
Your response makes me think of a quote I once saw but that quote has completely flown from my head. It had to do with people's perceptions.
@Poppylicious (11133)
15 Jun 20
We are all our own normal. It's why I don't like labels; neurotypical vs. atypical. Who's to say that the latter isn't the norm?
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• United States
15 Jun 20
Right. I just think labels hurt people. We try to live it up to them, or get away from them.
@LindaOHio (181189)
• United States
14 Jun 20
I like Marlina's response with the quote. I know I'm not normal either.
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• United States
14 Jun 20
My city was one of the places that Maya Angelou lived.
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• Agra, India
14 Jun 20
Yes.... And ignore those who think we are abnormal
• United States
14 Jun 20
Right. We spend our lives trying to live up to an ideal because we think it's the way we are supposed to be. We would be much happier if we just did what we wanted and cared little for others' opinions.
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• United States
14 Jun 20
@amitkokiladitya I have relieved myself of some obligations, but then there are still things that I need to accomplish. Even so, I am doing them mostly on my own terms.
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• Agra, India
14 Jun 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum how I wish I could relieve myself of all the obligation and live life ar my own pace and wish
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@akalinus (43332)
• United States
14 Jun 20
I am sure that I am not normal either, whatever normal might be. Normal is not fun or spontaneous. Normal is trudging through life and missing the humor and the brief bursts of joy.
• United States
14 Jun 20
I think normal is something many people strive for,but I do not believe it exists.
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
14 Jun 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I agree that I am also not normal. I have never really been normal. I feel I am a unique one of a kind person.
• United States
14 Jun 20
@Hannihar A person's unique qualities have nothing to do with whether they are a nasty person or not. Being unique doesn't excuse a person's bad behavior, nor does it have one to do with the other, in my opinion.
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• United States
14 Jun 20
We all are unique.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
14 Jun 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I do not believe everyone is unique. There are a lot of nasty people out there.
• India
14 Jun 20
Haha am not normal then
• United States
14 Jun 20
No one really is.