friendship
By Aphrodite
@Aphrodite (3)
Philippines
September 12, 2006 2:50pm CST
If u had to choose between your lover and your friend, who would u choose and why?
25 responses
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
12 Sep 06
usually...i think ur lover shld b ur best friend also...instead of going around in search of frds tis better to share all ur thoughts wid ur lover....n secondly referring to the question u've asked...well if such a situation comes than i'd look into the matter that who is much more worthy of being along with.......coz often lovers ditch u n often frds.......so tis depends
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@sherinek (3320)
• United States
18 Oct 06
That depends on the situation. Plus the weight of the friendship and love. One should be able to balance between love and friendship. If your lover is unreasonable, I might try to make him realize the friend's point of view and same way around. I personally think they are not good friend or a lover, if they make you choose between them, knowing how important both of them to you. Friendship and love should ease our minds, not make our mind go crazy.
@hppygrrrl (419)
• United States
21 Sep 06
depends on the situation. if my husband needed me so desperately to choose between him & a friend, it must be for a good reason. only because he is very well rounded and i respect him.
@nickel1191 (2790)
• India
18 Oct 06
i will choose someone who can be both to me anytime and everytime.
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
13 Sep 06
Pretty simple for me as my Best friend is my Girl Friend.... so no matter i leave any1... both of them are always there with me....
@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
13 Sep 06
My lover is my friend. So I don'y have to choose. But if I did I would day my friend because lovers come and go but a friend is for a lifetime.
@komal_swetha (821)
• India
13 Sep 06
I pray to God it never comes to me. If my love understands me he will never create the situation so, and even my friend will never create that problem. I dont have that problem because I dont have lover.
@aardvax (12)
• India
19 Sep 06
i could not get you
love and frienship are two different things
ya ok i beleive that they are intermingled with each
other but they dont lose their own identity
and if you getting mixed with both of them
then you dint realise both i suppose
close your eyes and you will find the answer
if you find that you cant lose anyone of them
then you are right i dont think there is any harm in
keeping both of them