friendship

Philippines
September 12, 2006 2:50pm CST
If u had to choose between your lover and your friend, who would u choose and why?
25 responses
@aubry1 (267)
• United States
12 Sep 06
If they put me in a position where I had to choose then I might just dump both of them.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
12 Sep 06
usually...i think ur lover shld b ur best friend also...instead of going around in search of frds tis better to share all ur thoughts wid ur lover....n secondly referring to the question u've asked...well if such a situation comes than i'd look into the matter that who is much more worthy of being along with.......coz often lovers ditch u n often frds.......so tis depends
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• Nigeria
27 Nov 06
Well said.
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
21 Sep 06
Well they are one in the same, so both!
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@insecure (612)
• India
25 Oct 06
"FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND IN DEED"- i hope i dont have to say more u could understand rest
• Malaysia
27 Nov 06
friend...lover cant be trusted
@svr4amma (110)
• India
28 Nov 06
i will choose my friend. because
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
18 Oct 06
That depends on the situation. Plus the weight of the friendship and love. One should be able to balance between love and friendship. If your lover is unreasonable, I might try to make him realize the friend's point of view and same way around. I personally think they are not good friend or a lover, if they make you choose between them, knowing how important both of them to you. Friendship and love should ease our minds, not make our mind go crazy.
@hppygrrrl (419)
• United States
21 Sep 06
depends on the situation. if my husband needed me so desperately to choose between him & a friend, it must be for a good reason. only because he is very well rounded and i respect him.
• India
18 Oct 06
lover of course
@nickel1191 (2790)
• India
18 Oct 06
i will choose someone who can be both to me anytime and everytime.
• India
28 Sep 06
no lover sooooooo only frnd left!
• India
28 Sep 06
no lover sooooooo only frnd left!
• India
28 Sep 06
no lover sooooooo only frnd left!
• United States
22 Oct 06
My husband because he is my best friend.
@lesnan (537)
• United States
13 Sep 06
I wouldn't choose. I am not about to get in the middle of whatever spat they might be having. I would tell them to either get along or get lost.
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
13 Sep 06
Pretty simple for me as my Best friend is my Girl Friend.... so no matter i leave any1... both of them are always there with me....
@alexdada (27)
• India
13 Sep 06
good question but not to me..since i don't have lover...so its understood..i would choose my friend......friend in need is fren in deed..
@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
13 Sep 06
My lover is my friend. So I don'y have to choose. But if I did I would day my friend because lovers come and go but a friend is for a lifetime.
• India
13 Sep 06
I pray to God it never comes to me. If my love understands me he will never create the situation so, and even my friend will never create that problem. I dont have that problem because I dont have lover.
@aardvax (12)
• India
19 Sep 06
i could not get you love and frienship are two different things ya ok i beleive that they are intermingled with each other but they dont lose their own identity and if you getting mixed with both of them then you dint realise both i suppose close your eyes and you will find the answer if you find that you cant lose anyone of them then you are right i dont think there is any harm in keeping both of them