Dating my bestfriend

@fahmita_ (2261)
Indonesia
June 23, 2020 2:30am CST
We all have a bestfriend in our life. A best friend is the first person I call when I am in urgent situation. My bestfriend knows everything about me. But, What if I fall in love with him? I am so scared if I say to him what I feel, it will break our friendship. Have you ever felt the same thing?
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@jstory07 (139996)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Jun 20
I married my best friend and we are happy together.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Wow, really? That's a perfect happy ending with your bestfriend. I wish you both the best.
@rakski (126039)
• Philippines
23 Jun 20
I heard a lot about falling in love with your best friend and I think it is very good to have that kind of situation. I hope for both of your happiness
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Well, thank you so much.
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@rakski (126039)
• Philippines
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ I hope the love is both ways
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
23 Jun 20
If your best friend feel the same way like you do. I think there will be no problem
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• Germany
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ That`s the problem but you`ll never know if you don`t ask. right?
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
But I never know his feeling
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@m_audrey6788 Yes, haha. Maybe I just need a moment to tell him oneday.
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@Shunnan (2106)
23 Jun 20
oh how sweet it is. For me if i fall in love with my bestfriend i will not tell him.I will keep it and wait if he has same feeling as me.
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@Shunnan (2106)
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ oh that is sad i am not good in dating love advice
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
But if you don't tell him, maybe he'll loving someone else
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@Shunnan Haha it's okay, but thank you for your respons
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@seserica (381)
• Philippines
23 Jun 20
I’ve seen and read a lot of stories about best friends falling in love and there are a lot. And I haven’t really experience it or falling in love at all so I don’t really know what to do too if I ever I end up in the same place.
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@seserica (381)
• Philippines
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ but you’ll never know if they feel the same way
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@seserica Yes, so.. I think I should give him a code that I like him
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
I hope you never felt it. Because it's so confusing situation. Thanks for your respons
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23 Jun 20
Yes i felt it but one thing i would like to share is that according to my experience if u comes in relationship with your best friend it will be a great but the bond of friendship will not remain the same.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Yes, I think so.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ yes it is
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jun 20
If the feeling is mutual then it’s worth the try. You never know.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 20
Okay, thanks girl
@banksim (5256)
23 Jun 20
if you are scared to share feeling with the best friend..then how he is your best friend
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@banksim (5256)
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ that's the best part between best friend you can talk and discuss the matter without any fear
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@banksim I wish I could discuss it with him
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
I mean, maybe he already loves someone else, and I'm just afraid if after telling him, he feels awkward
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
That is very risky. In our culture, friendship in your case may end
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ life is choice
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Yeah, it's a bad news
@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
23 Jun 20
I think you should be honest with me. Tell him what you feel, and take the risk. If he is really a good friend he will not leave you.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Yes, but I am scared if we both feel awkward after I tell him
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
23 Jun 20
If you're best friends then your friend not feeling the same probably won't break apart the friendship. You may need to take a break from interacting but you will always be friends. It may even be better to just keep them as a friend.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Yes, I'm just afraid if it will ruin my friendship with him.
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• Denpasar, Indonesia
23 Jun 20
its so nice if you can fallin in love with your bestfriend.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
I don't think so
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 20
@komangmelon It's true, but..I don't know, I just feel like I shouldn't have a feeling for him
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• Denpasar, Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ why? it that so confusing like you said? cause i never feel what you feel
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• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
i have... but, then it's broken our friendship when i told her. we were too young back then, and don't really have open minded.. recently i met her again, we become friends again, more story to be shared, and it's fun :) it's okay to talk things out! love will find the way ^^
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Whoah, you're so gentle. I hope I can do the same thing you did. Wish me luck
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• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@fahmita_ Good luck! may happiness be with you :)
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
@friendlyneighbour Thank you, bro.
• Cebu, Philippines
24 Jun 20
Ive felt the same thing, but for me its great to have your bestfriend as your partner in life. U could have a friend to cry on and a lover to love on, 2 special characters in 1 person sent by God for you. ^_^
@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 20
Yes, it was my dream. It will be perfect if he feels the same
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
23 Jun 20
No, I never felt that way.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Oh that's okay
@crafty01 (480)
• Jamshedpur, India
23 Jun 20
Well, my best friend is a male and I am straight. As far as best friend falling in love is concerned, I enjoyed it in Hollywood movies.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Oh well, I am speechless
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@Janet357 (75646)
23 Jun 20
i never dated my male friend.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
But, Do you have a crush on them?
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
23 Jun 20
No idea about it my friend. If you have that love feel, then propose your friend, if he agree. Then live together no issues hear.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Well, thank you for your answer
@dindamu (132)
23 Jun 20
Maybe you can try to get knowing how he feel about you
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Yes, I'll try it.
• Medan, Indonesia
23 Jun 20
I have never been in love with a friend, but in my opinion it would be very fun. Just do it dan happiness
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 20
Happiness if only he feels the same