What is wrong with Indian parents and society?

June 29, 2020 3:46am CST
A boy became CBSE Topper with 499/500 Marks in 10th standard. So as the tradition goes Some news reporter went to interview him, out of those Interviewers, one was particularly dumb and stupid. So the reporter asked him cliched question like What inspired you to study hard. What else did you do? Can you give advise to youngsters. . And then an unexpected question. You must be having regret for the loss of 1 mark? And I was like WTF DID YOU SAY??!!! and it didn't stop there, she Asked his father the same question and his reply was ; . . It was in the back of my Mind that He could do better… And they Ask “why are Children loosing their childish behavior?” This is what's wrong with Indian parents and society. Making kids feel that nothing is enough….
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
29 Jun 20
I guess you are talking about previous year. The result is still not out for this year. My elder daughter has appeared for the exam this year. Well we are parents who believe that our child's talent is much beyond her marks or performance in board exams. We have never made marks so important and pressurizing. She has to enjoy her learning.
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29 Jun 20
Yes this is the news of last year And I appreciate you for not making any kind of pressure on your daughter.But in this world there are many such parents who make pressure to bring good marks on their children.They need to understand that marks do not decide our future .
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
30 Jun 20
@Mnpo098 This is not only a problem in India. It is sadly an universal problem. Yes Asian parents do it more for more cultural and social reasons. But I have seen it in varying intensity everywhere. When I visited Singapore, I felt that the local education system there was too strict and too discriminating when it came to academic performance. it was too stressful. Children were actually trained in a robotic way.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
29 Jun 20
I'm sure that's a universal problem. Our sons were never pressured by us and did extremely well in school.
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30 Jun 20
I have seen this in many cases , when parents do not make much pressure on their children, they perform better.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
30 Jun 20
@Mnpo098 Children need to understand priorities in life. Parents should be there for them and guide them. Too bad so many don’t.
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@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
29 Jun 20
I think that is the problem of parents and children all over the world. That is very sad for the child to have parents like that.
30 Jun 20
Such children start feeling suffocated at home. They are unable to share anything with their parents.
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
29 Jun 20
Isn't just Indian parents that are like this. They do need to remember that yes passing is required but your grades don't define you... If you're a doctor not many people are going to say "Oh you got 499/500 for that test I don't trust you."
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• Australia
29 Jun 20
@Mnpo098 They might see your academic transcripts in some circumstances but not all jobs would ask for them.
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29 Jun 20
Yes you are right . I don't think anyone will ask our marks ahead in life. Everyone will see our talent.
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@Adie04 (17360)
29 Jun 20
Omg, that's stupid question. What's wrong with losing only 1 mark.... That could lead children having depression you know.
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@Adie04 (17360)
30 Jun 20
@Mnpo098 aigoo.... They forgot that no human are perfect in this world
• Amravati, India
30 Jun 20
Indian parents have orthodox thinking. Even students are taking education to get a job. Not to acquire knowledge.