my friend is getting married

i have one really close friend and she got married in december and i was godmother and i don't feel sad at all. we're adults, we're supposed to live our own lives. i'm sure we'll keep in touch and i want her to be happy.

I can understand.

My son feels the same way his best friend in life just married and moved away. He is happy for him but really misses him.

My best wishes to your friend

Lives go on buddy. It maybe feel a little lonely sometimes, but it's not like they're gone forever since you can still contact them.

Hello Febbyana ! I want to share my personal experience about ur problems So I have a friend,a best friend if I say, since at least 15 years ago. Back in the days, we really hang out a lot. he often sleepover at my place too. And I cant count how many times me and him ride aimlessly through the city and village ( and ricefields too,lol). So my friend just married, I feel the same with you, happy, and sometime sad. But the sad feeling from me is, what should I say, gone bit by bit. Maybe because I already sad back when we finally went to different city, and we continued our own journeys. That is the time when I feel sad about our friendship. But times goes on, and so do us. I met new friends, even not as close as with hm, but at least the sad feeling ( maybe its because feels like "my best buddy is gone, what should I do from now on?" is gone because I met new friends and new activity) So fas forward to recently, where he just got married, I feel happy for him, and the sad from the lonely feeling is gone, and some things I can say to you, is that after marriage, u still can contact her even not that often. U r not losing a best friend,both of u just continuing ur own journeys. As the time goes by, you will get used to it ( yeah because shes not left u entirely like for example she mad at you and dont want to see u again or someting), U can still chat with her, but u must know the situation too, dont ask her to go out with u, because she finally have her own family. Ive been told from a friend, theres a unwritten code, when ur friend get married, dont mindlessly ask her to hanging out with u, but wait for her invitation first. I hope after u read my (some kind of nonsense :P) story, u can overcome the sadness and u have a great day Feb !

that is called "life".

dont worry. love is a struggle of two couples. if he doesn't side by side with you, that means he doesn't really love you. time will cure you

Yeah Man i feel that way, but u have to let her go man