Why do I dream about him almost everyday?
By Miss_Leafy
@Miss_Leafy (4296)
Colombia
July 6, 2020 4:14am CST
Each time I have dreams, I always share them to my husband. But this time when I told him about it, he seemed to get tired of it. I understood his feeling.
Yes, since I left my family in Indonesia, I have dreams about my Dad almost every night.
My Dad passed away ten years ago which was my great loss. But after some years, I accepted the fact that he'd gone forever. I have no sadness anymore when thinking about him.
But I I don't know why I have dreams about him since I moved to a new country almost everyday.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
6 Jul 20
For sure you may be missing your father that he is even in your subconscious hence the dreams.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
11 Jul 20
@Miss_Leafy same here, I miss my parents even if they were gone many years ago.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
14 Jul 20
@Alexandoy Your parents are always in your heart. So does my Dad.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
11 Jul 20
@Miss_Leafy Do you enjoy your life in Colombia?
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
11 Jul 20
You're right. I'm still adapting myself with the new life in Colombia
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
14 Jul 20
@LadyDuck Yes I do. The culture is quite similar with my country .
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
6 Jul 20
It could mean that you are not only missing your father but also your native country and the people there. Perhaps you should consider a vacation once the pandemic is over.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
11 Jul 20
Yeah, I think I need to visit my country soon.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Jul 20
May be you remember them and that is why they comes in your dream. My dad also passed away and i miss him lot. Sometimes he comes in my dreams and i felt happy to see him.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
11 Jul 20
I'm sorry to hear that. When I had dreams about my dad, I felt happy too
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
11 Jul 20
Oh, I think you're right. I'm homesick .
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@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
11 Jul 20
@Miss_Leafy When are you planning to visit your home country?
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
14 Jul 20
@thelme55 We planned to go to Indonesia last month. But the lockdown stopped us. So, hopefully we can go next year.
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
@Miss_Leafy as our tradition, we live with big family
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
14 Jul 20
Yes, because I used to live with my mom and siblings, and my niece and nephew.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
16 Jul 20
@nawala123 Yes, and they gave me a lot of memories which I can't forget
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
6 Jul 20
He is still in your memory. As a father's girl, it's not easy to forget him.
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@aureategloom (11156)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
6 Jul 20
i think that you shouldn't worry about it. just pray for your dad's soul when you wake up in the morning and enjoy the rest of the day and make your dad proud of you
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@aureategloom (11156)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
6 Jul 20
@Suhendra7 you want that present so bad ha?
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@Suhendra7 (494)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 20
I dont know this yumeko girl, but I think shes telling good things
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
11 Jul 20
I miss him, that's for sure. But I'm not sad anymore.
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@Suhendra7 (494)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 20
If sadness is nothing to do with it, I think its like unconscious mind that make it happen
Also memories from the past is have its own role on it.
So, I think the important think is you isnt sad anymore and already overcome it. I think thas a good sign
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
11 Jul 20
You're right. I'm okay now. I have accepted the fact that he's gone.
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