Partner in Life
By Firmansyah
@sky_green (21)
10 responses
@sky_green (21)
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15 Jul 20
Sometimes i'm join the game, but sometimes she always looking at her phone when we in serious conversation'. But, thank's for your advice. :)
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
15 Jul 20
Phones were an issue in my last relationship... I didnt use my phone around him to you know pay attention to him because we didnt get much time together and he thought I was "hiding something" I got irritated when he would sit and scroll on his phone for ages through facebook... I could have left and spent the day doing something productive like studying and he could have spent the day looking through his facebook like he usually does... I said something about it and he said sorry and he wouldn't do it again the next time I came round... a few times we were uhm intimate and he took his phone from the bedside table and messaged his housemate... Or looked at something someone had tagged him in... I asked him the date and then told him I had to go because I had a meeting I had forgotten about... How would he have felt if while we were intimate I grabbed my phone and started messaging my guy friend 
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
17 Jul 20
@sky_green Try and nip it in the butt... If she doesn't stop I would suggest a petty solution do to her what she does to you see if she gets mad... I know a couple that sit on their phones and scroll like 3/4 of the time they are together they've been together 3 years now
@sky_green (21)
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17 Jul 20
i'm sorry to hear that. but i think we got the same problem her. but in different condition. yup, my partner spent a lot of scroll on phone too.
Thanks for your comment btw :)
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
17 Jul 20
@sky_green Do you love her? She is not very nice, if she loves you she should take more care of you.
@sky_green (21)
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17 Jul 20
when i say just like that, and she will get angry. and here comes for another problem. LOL
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
you can stop your conversation until he pays attention to you, mate
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@sky_green (21)
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17 Jul 20
yup, sometimes i did that. but i'm not in the good mood to do serious conversation
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@Nailayf10 (90)
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15 Jul 20
Well that is a behavioral problem, you won't be able to control it because your partner has a mind of her own. So making her realize that you are not okay with it might solve your problem. Getting mad and being firm are not always a bad idea...
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@sky_green (21)
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15 Jul 20
Maybe i will try being more firm to her. :D.
Because if im mad, it end up she will more angry than me. LOL
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@Nailayf10 (90)
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15 Jul 20
@sky_green yeah I'm a girl too and I will definitely get angry when my man is angry too LOL. But we listen too. Your girl is so lucky to have you...
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
16 Jul 20
@sky_green that isn't good . Maybe it's time to make him realise. Next time he talk to you keep yourself indulged in some work and don't reply
@sky_green (21)
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15 Jul 20
i'm already try this before, it works but it end up with she mad on me :|
@Suhendra7 (494)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
Hmm its hard really, but if we talk and she is playing her phone,it some kind of not respecting the talker.
What I used to do is I wait for her to finish her doing, and then I talked to her about it, she will understand although it takes some time 
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