Partner in Life

July 14, 2020 8:34pm CST
How to reprimand a partner who is too often playing mobile phone without hurting her feelings. i'm really upset when i'm in the middle conversation and my partner just play her phone. I hope myLot can give the best advice. Thanks Everyone. :)
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
15 Jul 20
You join the game and enjoy together. We can expect love as we want always, we just need to accept what our love, love to do. You try to love your partner's choice
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15 Jul 20
Sometimes i'm join the game, but sometimes she always looking at her phone when we in serious conversation'. But, thank's for your advice. :)
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
15 Jul 20
Phones were an issue in my last relationship... I didnt use my phone around him to you know pay attention to him because we didnt get much time together and he thought I was "hiding something" I got irritated when he would sit and scroll on his phone for ages through facebook... I could have left and spent the day doing something productive like studying and he could have spent the day looking through his facebook like he usually does... I said something about it and he said sorry and he wouldn't do it again the next time I came round... a few times we were uhm intimate and he took his phone from the bedside table and messaged his housemate... Or looked at something someone had tagged him in... I asked him the date and then told him I had to go because I had a meeting I had forgotten about... How would he have felt if while we were intimate I grabbed my phone and started messaging my guy friend
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• Australia
17 Jul 20
@sky_green Try and nip it in the butt... If she doesn't stop I would suggest a petty solution do to her what she does to you see if she gets mad... I know a couple that sit on their phones and scroll like 3/4 of the time they are together they've been together 3 years now
17 Jul 20
i'm sorry to hear that. but i think we got the same problem her. but in different condition. yup, my partner spent a lot of scroll on phone too. Thanks for your comment btw :)
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@LadyDuck (470823)
• Switzerland
15 Jul 20
Simply tell him that you feel "cut out" and it is not nice to do this.
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@LadyDuck (470823)
• Switzerland
17 Jul 20
@sky_green Do you love her? She is not very nice, if she loves you she should take more care of you.
17 Jul 20
when i say just like that, and she will get angry. and here comes for another problem. LOL
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
you can stop your conversation until he pays attention to you, mate
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
17 Jul 20
@sky_green we have to respect each other
17 Jul 20
yup, sometimes i did that. but i'm not in the good mood to do serious conversation
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
Just try to play 'Truth or Dare' and if she chose 'dare' so you can dare her to take off her phone.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
@sky_green Yes, haha. Goodluck!
15 Jul 20
Maybe i will try this option. LOL
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15 Jul 20
Well that is a behavioral problem, you won't be able to control it because your partner has a mind of her own. So making her realize that you are not okay with it might solve your problem. Getting mad and being firm are not always a bad idea...
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15 Jul 20
Maybe i will try being more firm to her. :D. Because if im mad, it end up she will more angry than me. LOL
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15 Jul 20
@sky_green yeah I'm a girl too and I will definitely get angry when my man is angry too LOL. But we listen too. Your girl is so lucky to have you...
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@crafty01 (480)
• Jamshedpur, India
16 Jul 20
Explain your grievance only when your partner in good mood and paying attention to you, try as many times as possible, then change will happen in slow way , peaceful way and in an organic way.
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• Agra, India
15 Jul 20
Tell him....and maybe he understands
• Agra, India
16 Jul 20
@sky_green that isn't good . Maybe it's time to make him realise. Next time he talk to you keep yourself indulged in some work and don't reply
15 Jul 20
i did, and always end up with anger :|
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@Janet357 (75646)
15 Jul 20
You can tell your partner your feeliings in a polite way and tell it when you both are in good mood.
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15 Jul 20
i'm already try this before, it works but it end up with she mad on me :|
@Suhendra7 (494)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
Hmm its hard really, but if we talk and she is playing her phone,it some kind of not respecting the talker. What I used to do is I wait for her to finish her doing, and then I talked to her about it, she will understand although it takes some time
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