Perspective
@RoshniMahasweta (309)
July 20, 2020 6:26am CST
You think you'r my weakness.
I wish you could understand you'r my strength, my inspiration to stay alive. You'll never be my weakness.
- rOsHnI MaHaSwEtA
Sometimes our loved ones take us for granted. They think that our love and care for them are our weaknesses. No matter how they treat us or hurt us, we will never be able to protest or leave them. Instead of loving us back or taking care of us or give us some time they star to ignore us. But it's not right. To me love is inspiration, my strength to stand against all odds and fights. Loves makes us feel alive, makes us strong. Love is my life elixir which makes me feel powerful. And if anyone takes you for granted, then it's time to make them understand the true essence of love.
What do you think about the aforesaid matter?
Good afternoon to all of you. Stay safe & keep loving
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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20 Jul 20
@janet357 exactly we forgive them no matter what and move on with new hope. What will you do if the circumstances are repeating? I think we should talk to them and express our feelings in a healthy way.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
21 Jul 20
@RoshniMahasweta Luckily I never had to face that dilemma.
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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20 Jul 20
@msdivkar Yes. We have to be tough and talk to them. I believe there's always a choice for us instead of getting a easy way to end relationships. We have to choose the other way and it may not be an easy one.
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@pandeydeependra (611)
• India
21 Jul 20
To maintain any relationship for a long time needed devotion, determination and emotion. In true emotion heart feeling required because heart never hurt. Both side should follow the same rules with sometimes supplement know "Compromise".
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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2 Aug 20
We have to be patient before reacting. That doesn't mean we will compromise. But we can sit together and talk to solve the problems
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
20 Jul 20
The human mind is unstable. Even your mind is too. Forgiveness and sacrifices a little bit can save you a lot. But if it's too much for you to handle, then there is always a way to end and start something new.
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
20 Jul 20
@RoshniMahasweta Well, I already answered that in my previous comment, guess you missed it. I said - "Forgiveness and sacrifices a little bit can save you a lot". Now you can do this with the closest ones. Also, actually you can do break up with them. As I have said, people do have a really unstable mind. If someone whether it's your sister, mother, father, brother, or whoever is causing you a lot of pain in your life, pulling you down, then well you just need to get out of it. Remember we always care about families because we grew up in that way. But remember my friend, nothing is perfect, everything has its positivity as well as its negativity.
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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20 Jul 20
@sparial02 exactly. But what will you do when the person is your sister or brother or friend or collegue or parents? You can't breakup with them. But we can talk to them, express our feelings and try to solve things a little bit harder.
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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21 Jul 20
@sparial02 Yeup. But you know there's always other choice like I said. I believe we humans have humanity, full of emotions, capability to fight against all odds, compassion for others. So, instead of leaving behind loved ones we can manage things or situations with face to face interaction. Why don't we do that? But people are egoistic. No one wants to talk first. But in family or close relations someone should have to be that bigger person. We can break any relations at any moment. But to build those or gain trust we fight a lot
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
1 Aug 20
If you are taken for granted, ti is just exploitation and not love. You have said it well that love should be our strength and not weakness. Remember the famous dialogue-" Do not fall in love, rise in love".
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@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
20 Jul 20
Totally agree with you but sometimes it's so difficult to break up with a person we love from the bottom of our heart
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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20 Jul 20
@butterfingers who're talking about breakups? Why do breakups when we can just talk to them quietly and express our feelings? It takes time to build a good relationships. But we're humans with feelings. So, we can just focus on the good things we'hv and solve things.
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
21 Jul 20
Yes, I agree, love should inspire us to greater love, as should all great things do likewise.
If something doesn't inspire us to greaterness of itself, we should drop it, and pursue something else instead.
Happiness leads to greater happiness, but anger leads to greater anger, so we should drop anger, into love, and let it disappear for all time from our lives. Let love dissolve our anger. Love more, anger less.
@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
21 Jul 20
@RoshniMahasweta Yes, it's better to let things go, and to start loving again. Love is always the best solution.
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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21 Jul 20
@innertalks Yeup, for everybody. And forgiveness brings you peace. By giving forgiveness you will start to love yourself also
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@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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21 Jul 20
Exactly. That's my point. Human lives are very fragile and momentary. We do not know when will we die. So why don't we keep aside all our anger and move together to make new moments. Everyone does mistakes. We should not hold that grudge forever.
@RoshniMahasweta (309)
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20 Jul 20
@piyushbhatia1 oh! I didn't write it for any particular person. Most of the people face this kind of situation. So, I just wrote it for a discussion.
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