Go back to ex or not?

@VanyS97 (104)
July 20, 2020 11:38am CST
Is it possible to live a happy love life when there was a fight almost daily? When he/she didn't cheat, is it a good reason to try it again?
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@CinnamonGrl (7086)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
21 Jul 20
I would rather be single than to live with someone I can't get along with. There's so much more to a relationship than just. ..not cheating,, you know?
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
Yes right. There can be so much deeper pain and disappointment, really
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 20
If two people really love each other, they can figure something out
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
My thoughts also. Lol by the way we call each other bear and Panda all the time, just like your profile photo hahah
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 20
@VanyS97 hahah really? Thats cute. Is it between you and your ex or you and your boyfriend ?
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
@sophie09 Yes hahah so cute. Boyfriend, acutally. But it was on and off the last years. Main problem was jealousy from both sides. It is now way better, but not really where we want to be
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@moffittjc (121729)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Jul 20
For the sake of your health and happiness, I would suggest that you not go back to an ex that you fought with constantly. No good can come of all that fighting and arguing. Find somebody who treats you with dignity and respect.
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@moffittjc (121729)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Jul 20
@VanyS97 i'm sure there are many wonderful guys out there for you, find you one that makes you happy and encourages you to pursue your passions and be the best person you can be!
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@VanyS97 (104)
28 Jul 20
@moffittjc Thank you so much! I wish you all the best!
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@VanyS97 (104)
22 Jul 20
Thank you so much Jeff! You are so right, if there is no more good in it, it is not worth it.
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@lovebuglena (44721)
• Staten Island, New York
21 Jul 20
If two people cannot get along and constantly at each others' throats then it is not a healthy relationship and perhaps is best to not be together. I'd rather be single than in a relationship like that.
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@lovebuglena (44721)
• Staten Island, New York
21 Jul 20
@VanyS97 You don't easily give up. You try to work it out. But if you can't work it out and it is constant battles (hopefully just verbal and not physical) then best to separate.
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
@lovebuglena Yes, that is right. Fighting yes, but everything needs to lead to something. Happily no physical battles.
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
Yes, this is right. So might it need a little time to test it, to see if there will still be more happy than sad days
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
21 Jul 20
Oh jeez I have asked myself this many times about my ex Bones... that is if he would have me back... I oscilate between f*ck no and: If he seeks professional help for his issues, cuts the sh*t and grows the f*ck up then I would be happy to go back to him. That said I recognise I have a lot of things to sort out myself which I am working on. Perhaps take a break and figure things out if it's meant to be it will be. Who knows they may be your twin flame.
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• Australia
21 Jul 20
@VanyS97 You too ^_^
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@VanyS97 (104)
28 Jul 20
@Fa_Maverick Thanks!
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
Yes. So this was the same with me like I took a couple months off, just for myself. And I realized I was not struggling with the fear of loving him, I was struggling with myself. Because I did not love myself enough. Wish you all the best!
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22 Jul 20
No. its not healthy to stay when there is a fight daily. But you can always try again if he/she is faithful.
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@VanyS97 (104)
22 Jul 20
Yes he is. Really faithful. Like I have been appearing to surprise him and I could him watch from a far. No eyes on another girl lol.
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@VanyS97 (104)
28 Jul 20
@MisisAmparo Yes. This is what I learned too. Not to think about that what you say will maybe hurt your partner, but to say it in a normal way and then fix it together.
22 Jul 20
@VanyS97 Thats good. It would be better to communicate clearly. Stay in love and safe.
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• India
21 Jul 20
It depends on your understanding with each other. Now its very rare to find the partner who understands you and care for your emotion and feelings.
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
Right, these days it gets rare. It also gets rare for people trying to figure out the reason why being mad and all that stuff. People are way too stressed out and care too less.
@psanasangma (7280)
• India
22 Jul 20
This will be hurtful to me. But again it's depend on person to person because everybody cannot forgive when someone being cheated, accepting the same person is like holding fixed broken glass that can be broken any time
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@VanyS97 (104)
22 Jul 20
This is right. Then the distance is too much between two persons
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• United States
21 Jul 20
Sometimes it is best to let the EX be and EX
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@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
22 Jul 20
nope. better find another man/woman if your are facing fight everyday.
@Glory19 (98)
21 Jul 20
It may also depend on what the fights were about. If the factors that made you fight are still there then you really need to think hard, don't just let the romantic part of your brain rule over everything.
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@VanyS97 (104)
22 Jul 20
Right. So I would say the reasons are still there, but not so deep and bad how it used to be
20 Jul 20
You could consider it yet for me it's like we read the same book where we knew the ending. But in the end it's your choice, do what makes you happy
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@VanyS97 (104)
21 Jul 20
Thanks!