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@Aurel2 (342)
Surabaya, Indonesia
July 25, 2020 12:11am CST
Today I found something wrong with my nephew. He is 1 year old. For some reason every time we met eye contact he would scream and attack me. well, he attacks me and looks still adorable. maybe last night he had a bad dream about me. And now I'm trying to bribe him so he doesn't scream like that. So i can hug him in peace. I'm still trying and it seems like nothing has changed. Have you ever experienced something similar? Picture by parenting.orami.jpg
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 20
Is it often happen or not only once?
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 20
@Aurel2 may be you did something wrong
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
No this the first.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
@nawala123 no, some people say that's It's something often happen to children. And for now, i had success make him stop Scream to me (with a lot of bribe). Now i just have to wait for his good mood. Maybe i can have a hug from him.
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@LadyDuck (470745)
• Switzerland
25 Jul 20
Children so young can get scared for something for no reasons. This is momentary, it will pass.
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@LadyDuck (470745)
• Switzerland
26 Jul 20
@Aurel2 Do not force him or he will get anxious and stressed.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
Yes. I want to hug him so badly. I envy his parent now.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
@LadyDuck yes. Today he's good. Not Scream at me. Just need spend more time play with him. And maybe i got a good hug.
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@marguicha (222364)
• Chile
25 Jul 20
Children that young behave weirdly. I just remembered that my eldest daughter was very much afraid of my mother´s best friend. She was a wonderful lady.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
25 Jul 20
Yes, i know. He will afraid with new people. But i know he very friendly with anyone he know. I just don't want him to avoid me for no reason.
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@marguicha (222364)
• Chile
25 Jul 20
@Aurel2 Don´t push it. He´ll learn.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
25 Jul 20
@marguicha yes. i hope he have good dreams about me tonight.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Jul 20
I think it's pretty common at his age. I'd be concerned when he's 15.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
Ah,, that's really troubling.
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@Timex123 (3269)
25 Jul 20
I think it is a natural reaction from them since their mindset is different than older people
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@Timex123 (3269)
27 Jul 20
@Aurel2 that's so sweet of you
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
27 Jul 20
@Timex123 thank you. You flaterring me
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
Yes. I got to spend more time to play together with him. Also bribing for good hug.
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• Indonesia
25 Jul 20
Maybe he's in a bad mood and doesn't want to be disturbed.
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• Indonesia
26 Jul 20
@Aurel2 It seemed like it needed enough time to be able to approach him again. Touch with heart.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
27 Jul 20
@Syukriyanto yes. You right.
@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
Just with me. And don't know long he will like me again. Got to spend more time to play with him.
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@jstory07 (139336)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Jul 20
That is something that he will out grew.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
27 Jul 20
Yes. And grow so fast. Finally today i got to hug him.
@crafty01 (480)
• Jamshedpur, India
25 Jul 20
Kids do it because of a bad mood or to protect or defend themselves from negative vibes, which could come from any place not necessarily from you, if you keep bribing he will associate you with something pleasant, so bribing is good for an ADORABLE HUG!!!.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
Yes. He not Scream at me today. But still attack me. Well, i got to spend more time to play with him.
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
25 Jul 20
Maybe he is not used to you but when he sees more of you he should. Be nice though
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
26 Jul 20
Yeah, i got to spend more time to play with him.
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@rhuenz (10643)
25 Jul 20
Kids sometimes funny,i had my niece and nephews and they likes to play with me.
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
25 Jul 20
Yes. My niece likes to play with me too, for some reason not today. I really like to hug him and will miss him when cann't meet for one day.
• India
5 Aug 20
Post his photo.
@Fifihanda (138)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 20
yes I also often experience, I think it is natural, a form of emotional instability of a child
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@Aurel2 (342)
• Surabaya, Indonesia
25 Jul 20
Good to hear that's.
• Indonesia
25 Jul 20
@Aurel2 thanks
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