Practicing Holding Patience

@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
August 7, 2020 9:51am CST
Yesterday I had a bad experience at office and here someone tried to underestimate me even she was a 3rd person there. I was talking to one of my colleague and he made fun with me and I also made fun and it was the matter of we two suddenly a 3rd person woman started teaching me that I shouldn’t talk to him that way and I just told nothing right there and hold my patience. If I want I can replied that she was a third person there. She was trying to teach me the lesson of manner or courtesy but later I saw she was using slug language with some other senior colleague, if I wish I could take revenge by telling her that she is wrong on her way and she teaches me the manner, lol. She is mannerless and she teaches others manner. How does it sounds? May Almighty Allah gives her enough realization that what is she and what she should do. I had a panic attack inside but I'm practicing holding patience.
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@Janet357 (75646)
7 Aug 20
I think the best way to.deal.with her is to ignore her.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
7 Aug 20
Yes dear I ignored
• Montego Bay, Jamaica
7 Aug 20
I agree. If you answer people like that you’re only adding fuel to the fire. Let her be miserable. Misery loves company! You’re smart for staying away from it! Also strong, it takes a lot of strength to keep your mouth shut sometimes!
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
7 Aug 20
Yes you are right, sometimes its heard to shut our mouth in such situations
• Agra, India
7 Aug 20
You did the right thing. There is nothing wise in throwing at stone in the mud.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
7 Aug 20
Well said, and my silence was the slap for the woman. Hope she'll realise her faults
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
8 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya yes dear hope so
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• Agra, India
8 Aug 20
@SHOHANA yes .one day maybe
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@ExplorewtMe (6332)
• Nairobi, Kenya
7 Aug 20
Just keep a distance from people like that and let them know they are not welcome in others matters.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
7 Aug 20
Yes I'll try best to ignore such kind of people
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• India
7 Aug 20
Good you ignored and stay patient why raise your blood pressure try to stay calm
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
7 Aug 20
Thanks for your concern dear, you are right
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• India
8 Aug 20
@SHOHANA Have a great day
@Kanika1234 (1546)
• India
7 Aug 20
You did right just ignore that kind of people ....anyways what you do??
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
7 Aug 20
Yes I ignored but I was really very angry
@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
8 Aug 20
It is a common thing for people to be critical of things that they themselves are guilty of.
@LindaOHio (182951)
• United States
8 Aug 20
You did right by practicing tolerance and not starting a fight.