Feels like I am a Cinderella
By Adie
@Adie04 (17360)
August 21, 2020 5:42am CST
Imagine that you have done a work for someone until you sacrifice your eating, sleeping time.... And the moment you send the work to them and you don't get a thanks, but another warning of 'I want this to be perfect'. How would you feel about it?
It's happening. I just completed my coursemate's dissertation today. I even go extra miles by doing survey questionnaire and consent form for her. Chapter 1 until chapter 3 has done in just 6 days. Some people done it for 6 months, and I manage to complete it in just 6 days. I felt very tired. So I'm hoping at least a thank you from her.
The answer is no 
She answered me. 'If my supervisor asked me to edit, you must edit it until it's perfect. Don't you dare do other things before the dissertation gets perfect'.
Huh, am I a Cinderella here asking for the floor to get perfectly cleaned? 
I tried explaining that no things can be perfect. It's up to her to explain to the examiners to defend her own proposal she don't even touch. I also explained that I need time to rest too.... Yet she said 'Don't you dare to get offended. I'm telling you to make my work as perfect as possible and how you dare to rest when things are not over?'
I finally put my hands up and said to her 'go find a professional researcher to do your work. Let me rest and sleep'.
I hope you have a good day today.
Stay safe, take care.
Adie,
August 2020
She answered me. 'If my supervisor asked me to edit, you must edit it until it's perfect. Don't you dare do other things before the dissertation gets perfect'.
Huh, am I a Cinderella here asking for the floor to get perfectly cleaned?
I tried explaining that no things can be perfect. It's up to her to explain to the examiners to defend her own proposal she don't even touch. I also explained that I need time to rest too.... Yet she said 'Don't you dare to get offended. I'm telling you to make my work as perfect as possible and how you dare to rest when things are not over?'
I finally put my hands up and said to her 'go find a professional researcher to do your work. Let me rest and sleep'.
I hope you have a good day today.
Stay safe, take care.
Adie,
August 202012 people like this
12 responses
@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
21 Aug 20
How much are you being paid for that work?
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
21 Aug 20
@Adie04 that is a slave driver. Just for paying you the treatment is abusive.
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@Adie04 (17360)
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24 Aug 20
@Alexandoy I know right. I don't know should I fight to get the little payment at least or block her number instead.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Why are you doing this for her? Is she paying you? At any rate, it seems dishonest for her to pass it off as her own work
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Aug 20
rudeness to the highest degree. what does she think about you? her employee? is she of another nationality? is she your relative? do you owe her a debt of gratitude?
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@Adie04 (17360)
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24 Aug 20
I know right! I am ok if she is my higher authorities or my supervisor or something saying I must do perfect work for her. But, she is nobody, not even a friend to me. Just an aquaintance from coursework study.... Yet she said that to me after all hard work I done.... Sigh...
@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
21 Aug 20
OMG! What a rude person. I would not continue writing for her. If she doesn´t pay you, tell her that you tell her teacher that it was not her whos writing her dissertation. Say it in a poker face. If she says other rude words to you, threaten her to report her to her teacher. Well, that is what I do if I were you.
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@Adie04 (17360)
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24 Aug 20
We have the similar thinking. But, I know her supervisor lecturer will know straight away that's not her who doing the work. And plus, her teacher happens to know my writing style.... It's only a matter of time her teacher supervisor will ask me.
Sigh..
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@Adie04 (17360)
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26 Aug 20
@thelme55 she is definitely cheating. Imagine, the first she reached out to me, she said all those stress from work, from family, her daughter needs to raise carefully.... And started to beg me until she promised to give $400! $400, seriously not a small amount you know..
Then, when I completed her work, there she goes negotiating and all that, again telling she needs to feed her daughter and all that..... Then she said you need to my work perfectly. That's where I am so upset and just tell her 'if you don't want to pay, leave me alone'.
But she's the one who gets mad and start telling I'm not mature and said all her dogs (minions, slaves, not really a co-worker she assumed) done her work. I simply told her go to your dogs and leave me alone.
Total
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@amitkokiladitya (171928)
• Agra, India
21 Aug 20
I'm so sorry all this got messed up
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@amitkokiladitya (171928)
• Agra, India
24 Aug 20
@Adie04 is she isn't satisfied she won't pay you in any case
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@Adie04 (17360)
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24 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya you know, she don't even know what she wants to do with her study, dissertation. That's why she seeks my help. I don't think it's reasonable she's not satisfied with my work if she doesn't even know how to do thesis.
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