Well That Was Rude

Angry
@djbrat13 (392)
Phoenix, Arizona
August 25, 2020 3:08pm CST
A few years back I had an incident that made me quite angry. I was working as a waitress and had some really good friends there working with me, so I thought we were friends. I was leaving to go home after my shift and left out the front door. When I got to my car, I realized I forgot my phone inside and turned to go back in to get it. I opened the door and there they were, talking crap behind my back, saying some really nasty things. They didn't see me come back in and had no idea I was standing there listening to everything they were saying. So I calmly said, "Wow you guys, now tell me how you really feel". You can imagine the look of horror on their faces when they knew they were caught. I continued to work at that same restaurant for about 6 more months but never talked to them again, only when it came to my job that I would speak to them. Have you guys ever had something like that happen to you?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Aug 20
Those nasty beasts!!!! I don't blame you for never talking to them again. They were most likely jealous, because that's what jealous people do. I've never overheard things about me, but have seen some things written about me on here. I'm no fool and promptly deleted those fools. In my real life, I have true friends and will not be friends with anyone I do not like or trust. As my family says, I'm full in the friends department.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
25 Aug 20
Oh, I'm sorry about that, you being targeted on here. Nobody deserves that especially somebody as nice as you. Keep your chin up and just be YOU... :o)
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Aug 20
@djbrat13 Thank you so much. I will continue to hold my head high, avoid those nasty people, and enjoy my time on here with my friends. I do love it here, and no one's words will chase me away.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
25 Aug 20
@DianneN Wonderful and I will do the same (((hugs)))
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• Sonora, California
26 Aug 20
I found a friend doing that needless to say she is no longer my friend.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
Who needs friends like that, Not me
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
28 Aug 20
@Michellekidwell Oh I'm glad you did. We don't need toxic people like that in our lives.
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• Sonora, California
26 Aug 20
@djbrat13 Me either, the second I caught her, I cut ties with her...
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@popciclecold (38818)
• United States
25 Aug 20
Yes, and I think you did the right thing. I've had to do that.
@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
I rather be alone. If having friends that talk crap about me, i'd rather not have any friends.
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@snowy22315 (180870)
• United States
26 Aug 20
You are braver than I am...I might have just quit on the spot. I did have a co worker that talked to me really nicely in front of other people and was very ugly in private. I never met someone so two faced in my life. I should have asked her, what I ever did to her?
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@snowy22315 (180870)
• United States
26 Aug 20
@djbrat13 I don't know why people have to be so ugly?
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
I know, I just don't get it. You have a friendship with someone and think you know them and then they totally turn around and stab you in the back. I'm sorry but I don't need "Friends" like that, I rather just be a loner if that's what friends are about.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
28 Aug 20
@snowy22315 I know, I do let it get to me more times than others, but I just need to take a step back and try to look at it differently.
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@Overflowing (3709)
26 Aug 20
whatever we do good or bad, people has a say. just ignore them and do things you think were right fro you and right for the sight of God
@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
You're right, I will do that. Just be me....and forget the rest