Just as I thought that my week is going bad, it got worse.

@id_peace (14005)
Singapore
August 30, 2020 4:52am CST
Yes this is the type of title that do not give too much positive stuff on what is supposed to be a sunny sunday. I suppose that the hot sunday sun is the last of my problem. It did turned out that there was something in my dad's MRI. The private specialist opinion is that there is a chance that it is a stage 3 cancer. He cannot tell till there is a biopsy is been done. Whichever is the case, an operation will be expected. So the biopsy is to be done somehow at the private hospital and we are to go to the government restructured hospital with these report. My wife was not helping much these days. She had been constantly whining at wanting to move out of our current house. Seriously? And to move into some private condo. Are you serious lady? Now at this time? Then she whine about all the housework and wanted a full time stay at home maid. Lady, you do not do all the housework yourself. I am not earning enough to do everything all at one shot. My online work is not bringing enough bacon either. I need to get a more steady online job income. So many problems and so few time to resolve them.
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@LadyDuck (471338)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 20
I worked all my life and I took care of my house too, tell your wife to go out and work if she wants a maid. My best wishes to your dad.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 Aug 20
Thank you so much for your wishes. She is working as well and for housework we are splitting between ourselves.
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@LadyDuck (471338)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 20
@id_peace If you help, she has no reason to complain, my husband helped very little.
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• China
30 Aug 20
Sorry to learn that your dad suffers from serious illness ! Your wife shouldn't nag you to do this and that at the moment when you are with a heavy heart.
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• China
31 Aug 20
@id_peace Hope things will work out fine ! Take care of yourself !
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
31 Aug 20
Now I have multiple problems in my hand and not much solutions or anything I can do to make the situation better.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
30 Aug 20
I feel sorry for you my friend, you are in real problem. A man can withstand all the problems of the life if he gets a support from his wife. If that is missing than any problem becomes big one.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
31 Aug 20
@id_peace Yes there is no other way but what I meant to say that if you get the support of your partner in that struggle it gets much better you don't feel the pain.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 Aug 20
I am a man so I will weather through all the problem as the head of the clan,
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
31 Aug 20
it's good that your wife works too and you share in the chores (as you mentioned in the comments). however, it's sad that she doesn't seem to be as concerned about her parents-in-law. are your parents entitled to senior discounts or financial aid?
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
31 Aug 20
There are senior discount but it is still expensive here so we buy insurance to cover that.
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• Philippines
1 Sep 20
Recently, so many people from all over facebook loosing their parents, specially from the covid. I'm blessed that my mom remains strong and healthy. But we did lost our grand mother three months ago.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
2 Sep 20
Sorry about your losses
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
1 Sep 20
So sorry for all these problems. Sometimes things happen all at once and cause a domino effect. Prayers for your father.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
1 Sep 20
Thank you for your prayers.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
1 Sep 20
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@GardenGerty (160626)
• United States
12 Sep 20
Sometimes when we are unhappy al we want is change, whether it helps or not. I wish I could earn more online, as if I did I would stay home.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
2 Sep 20
Your in my prayers tonight, and your family.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
2 Sep 20
@id_peace An angel to guide you and keep you strong.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
2 Sep 20
Thank you so much for your prayers.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
30 Aug 20
You will be in my prayers! There are still many blessings in every day, some days we just have to look harder for them than other days.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 Aug 20
Thank you so much for your prayers, blessing and comfort.
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@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Sep 20
I hope your Dad will be ok and your problems will all be solved.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
6 Sep 20
It is complicated for his part and we are seeking for multiple options.
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
30 Aug 20
Best wishes to your Dad
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 Aug 20
Thank you so much for your kind blessing.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Sep 20
i still hope the health of your father is your priority over your wife's whining.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
29 Sep 20
Oh yes of course. My father health definitely come first. My wife whining had been addressed separately via expectation management.
@LindaOHio (178131)
• United States
30 Aug 20
Sorry to hear about your Dad. A full-time maid would be very expensive. We have my husband's second cousin come in for 3 hours every 2 weeks. Have a wonderful Sunday/Monday.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
31 Aug 20
It is really expensive indeed.
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• India
30 Aug 20
Sorry about this terrible experience. We cannot change how wives think. Hope your father gets well soon and you can soon manage to get the surgery
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 Aug 20
Yes we have to do the best to ensure that we will can completed all the goals.
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