My son and books
By Sissy15
@sissy15 (12290)
United States
September 2, 2020 5:15am CST
I don't typically buy my son stuff just to buy him stuff and when I do it's something small that doesn't cost much more than five dollars. I usually buy him stuff for Christmas and his birthday and Easter because I use Easter as a way to get him summer toys and clothes. I sometimes reward good behavior with something special or I'll let him earn something he wants by helping out to earn money to get something he wants. Once in a while I do like to surprise him with something like a pack of Pokemon cards but it's usually out of the blue.
There's one exception to this I will sometimes splurge on books. I think reading is important especially during the summer when kids tend to be glued to video games. If I see a book I think my son will love or a new book to a series he reads I'll sometimes pick it up just because. It always makes a nice surprise.
My son's favorite series is Dogman. It's a graphic novel (comic) by the same author that writes Captain Underpants which is another series my son loves but he always picks Dogman first. My sister originally got him the first Dogman book and from there he couldn't put it down. I absolutely love hearing him giggle as he reads. I love that he allows his imagination to take over as he reads.
Reading is a favorite past time for me. As a kid, I always had a book in my hands and I would sometimes read two or three decent sized chapter books in a week because I'd spend hours reading. It something I want to share with my son. He loves all things science so I've also bought him science related books. His teacher told me that in class she had a hard time getting him to stop reading to focus on something else. My son is a strong reader. I thought he had issues when he was first learning because his scores were low so I took him to a reading tutor and they told me that he was actually a really good reader but would have a difficult time focussing sometimes. We found out later that it was because he has sensory processing disorder so loud sounds or talking really bother him. He's gotten better and we bought him headphones that help and now he puts those on when he reads but once he's really into it he can zone out without headphones.
My son now scores fairly high in both reading and vocabulary. He scored in about the 90th percentile for vocabulary and he sometimes sounds like a little old man with some of the words he uses. He is always looking up new words and using them in a sentence and trying out the sound of them. My son does well academically. Math is not his area but he isn't terrible but he excelles in reading. He has issues with writing due to fine motor issues and sometimes writes certain letters and numbers backwards but I read that can be due to sensory processing disorder but I'm not sure how.
I have always felt reading is important and I even used to read to my son in the womb and I read to him as a tiny baby and I kept reading to him and sometimes I still read to him. We take turns reading bigger chapter books. I listen to him and help him with words he doesn't know and it makes him a stronger reader because when you read something you don't always know if you're pronouncing it correctly and this helps him learn how to say certain words. Watching my son laugh and enjoy reading a book is an amazing gift. I wanted to share my love of reading with him and it seems to have paid off.
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@Michellekidwell (29423)
• Sonora, California
2 Sep 20
That’s a good thing, books are a necessity in my book, glad you’re son loves to read..l
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
3 Sep 20
@Michellekidwell I do too. As long as you have a book you can go anywhere and do anything. It's something a lot of kids don't realize.
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@Michellekidwell (29423)
• Sonora, California
3 Sep 20
@sissy15 He will, love it, it makes me happy to see kids reading
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
2 Sep 20
Headphones or ear muffs are really helpful to children who are sensitive to loud sounds.
I love reading and I am glad that what I inherited from my grandparents and parents have been beautifully passed on to my daughters. A book is your best friend and the best gift you can pass on to your child is the love for books and reading
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
3 Sep 20
I completely agree and I plan on having my son keep most of his book collection minus a few here and there that way he can pass them on to his children if he has them. We got rid of a lot of the books he outgrew but kept his favorites and I don't plan to get rid of those. He still likes to reread some of the ones from when he was smaller. As a kid I always had a book and I'm happy I get to share that with him.
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
3 Sep 20
@arunima25 I used to work with kids and planned to be a teacher but then I had my son and honestly, I got where I didn't want to teach anymore because I didn't want to deal with parents. A lot of teachers have to buy their own materials here and I imagine it's that way there too so a lot of classrooms love the donations.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
3 Sep 20
@sissy15 That's a good plan. I am a special educator and I help many children read and write. Though my daughters are teens now, I still use their younger age books to help my students. Some I have donated to the school where I used to work.
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
2 Sep 20
I always loved reading as far back as I can remember.. I Started reading at 4. I don't read nearly often enough now.. although we were without power for 5 days after the hurricane last month and I read 2 books in 3 days. I really enjoyed it and think I should make more time for it.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
2 Sep 20
Earlier i used to buy a lot many toys for my son .but now i have decided to spend money wisely
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
3 Sep 20
I prefer books over toys for my son. I told him he can keep his book collection and if he has kids one day he can share it with them. I have given him certain books that I had from my childhood. I have gotten rid of almost all of his baby books though but kept a couple of his favorites. He still likes rereading a few of his favorites from when he was younger. I mean even as adults sometimes we like to reread children's books. I feel like books are timeless and teach us a lot about the world around us and teaches us how different things were.
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
3 Sep 20
@amitkokiladitya Every kid is different. My son will go a while without reading and then one day pick one up and read for a long time he just has moments. His teacher told me all he wanted to do was read while in class. He went through every science book they had there and then read most of the Dave Pilky books.I think with him it just depends on the type of book. I would love him to branch out but he is very specific on types of books. He wants Minecraft, Pokemon, Captain Underpants, Dogman, or science books. When he runs out of those he will go a while in between. What's funny is when my son first started reading he wanted nothing to do with it and he struggled with some easier books but could read a Pokemon book with almost no struggle so it really came down to how interested he is. It's probably not that he doesn't like to read but that he hasn't found the right book yet. My brother was the same way but one day found a book he loved and he couldn't put it down. My son loves reading but he loves reading the types of books he's into and hates giving new genres a try which is something I'm really working on with him.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
3 Sep 20
@sissy15 one thing that I'm really sad about is that my son isn't fond of reading books
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
2 Sep 20
Wow your kid having good behavior lol, he likes reading, keeps encourage him.
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