Why do American men prefer to marry an Asian woman?
By winterlion
@winterlion (76)
Manila, Philippines
September 4, 2020 9:25pm CST
I'm a local here in the Phiippines and I know many girls among my circle of friends and as I grew older I realize they left the country one by one to marry a foreigner they met online. Filipina women are leaving the country to start a new life in America, Australia, or Canada. The Best places on Earth. Perhaps I can say that Filipina women are lucky because they got a chance to live in some fantasy land that I can only dream living at. Because they met someone to spend the rest of their life with. Well it does not go the other way around. American women don't actually prefer Filipino men. But it only happen in some rare cases like in Boracay when an American women met some local guys here. We, Filipinos are known for our hospitality with our guests specially with foreigners. Maybe that's one of the factor that I can think of. . I'm just surprised of the number of women getting married to foreigners. What about you guys? What do you think about the Asian women living in your country?
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Sep 20
I have to laugh at this. Not all Americans guys want Fillipano. Every person has there likes and sexually attractions. I can tell from a young teacher I was always attracted to males of the white skin tone. Probably mostly because I predisposed of that as a child. Seeing as I’m a mixed raced child. Guys of farming skin tone never really attracted me.
So I can tell you not all Americans men want a women form another country. It all depends on what the guy likes and the person personality.
You also have to realize that American isn’t as great as everyone think it is I would know I live here al of my life. If I had a choice I would live in like Canada or the UK.
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@winterlion (76)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Sep 20
Thank you for your response. I actually based my words accordingly to what I see around me. I have many friends from my childhood now living in perfect harmony with their white husband. There is happily ever after. But I can't deny the fact that it's not always the case. Perhaps it's true that many white people not just American but also Australian and Canadian ended up marrying a Filipina. Most of these case started as a caregiver working for the family then ended up marrying the head of the family. You are right that I agree with the fact that the attraction preferences might kick in on this one. But well thank you for sharing your opinion with us. And about America, you might be living as an American and you all got the benefits and the harmony factors affecting your life. And also a good economy. You might be living on a status that I would only dream of. Maybe it is true there is always a better place like Canada or UK. But we can't ignore the fact that America is one the best country in the world. I feel jealous already.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Sep 20
@Janet357 people are attracted to who they are attracted to it has nothing to do where you come from where you go to, how much money you have, and what you look like. People fall for who they fall for just don’t complain when someone from where you live leaves and gets married.
@winterlion (76)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Sep 20
Perhaps you are right it all comes down to the root of all reasons. It's the personality of the woman that really matters. I'm actually married so I can tell. I loved my Filipina wife because of her personality. Perhaps it's not always a happy together scene. I oath to myself that I will take care of her and protect her and make her happy no matter what. Because she is always there and never left me even at the toughest times of my life. But I'm creating this topic to hear the opinion on the other side of the view of the white people. Well thanks for your response.
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@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
5 Sep 20
@winterlion Well that should be the way every relation should be, but sometimes it is not like that.
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@winterlion (76)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Sep 20
I agree. Even celebrities too! Some are mixed. And they grew very pretty and handsome adults.
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
5 Sep 20
I don't know. I have never been wooed by an American 
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
5 Sep 20
Maybe they find them exotics. Not only about asians but latinas too!
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@winterlion (76)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Sep 20
That's interesting. Latinas are hot in a way too
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
5 Sep 20
No idea about it. Weddings are depended on their wish and love.
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@winterlion (76)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Sep 20
Yes, indeed. Thank you for your response. :)
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@Overflowing (3709)
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5 Sep 20
Im not really sure what to answer to this,you may have a point but theres personal reason behind every persons decision of marriage..have a good day ma friend
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@winterlion (76)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Sep 20
That is true. Perhaps maybe because we are so influenced by the white people. According to our history we are mixed culture with so many different races but Spaniards and Americans are the ones that dominates our past. So, we are not so stranger when it comes to white people.
