Someone I Knew from My Past
By meowhisper
@meowch (2220)
United States
September 24, 2020 12:03am CST
Words can’t describe what I feel tonight. The friend I knew from my past said the very words which affected me negatively. I don’t know if I’ll ever recover from the negative pain I feel.
I knew him since 2016 we can’t seem to make the friendship work. Time past I’m just doing my thing online this individual messaged me, sounded so caring and days after messaging each other said the very mean words to me.
I feel all sorts of emotions and they are all unpleasant.
How do you find the strength to not care and just move on? Because I’m sick of giving anyone a chance who won’t change for good.
Photo credit: Pixabay
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11 responses
@Overflowing (3709)
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24 Sep 20
i guess just forgive them ma friend and let go of it. if they talk to you just be nice and answer just a little and tell them your busy so the talking will not prolong,or just excuse yourself, i guess its better than hearing things you dont like.
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@Overflowing (3709)
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24 Sep 20
@meowch welcome ma friend anytime,i hope you overcome this
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
24 Sep 20
Delete right away. You don't need cruel people in your life. Not worth your time.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
24 Sep 20
@meowch Erase all the mean things spoken. It can be done. Think nothing of it any longer.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
24 Sep 20
@eileenleyva I’m doing that now. Thanks again.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
24 Sep 20
I understand how hard it is to move on and not care. I hope you`ll have the strength and courage to do it and enjoy life to the fullest 
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@Writingghost (5196)
• United States
24 Sep 20
You can wish the person well and hope the best - but that doesn't mean you let someone toxic back in your life.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
24 Sep 20
Block the person. I know it's not easy to get rid of that in your mind quick but if you try to think of other things or do things that can make you happy or be positive, focus on that. And never allow any person or give any person the chance to do that to you. So the best thing is to avoid those people.
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
24 Sep 20
First of all block all means by which he/she can contact you physically or virtually. Make yourself very clear that you mean no more business with him/her. And for your hurt feelings, time will heal. Try to distract yourself.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
1 Oct 20
@arunima25 I'm over the situation and I'm not going going back. It's in the past now.
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
1 Oct 20
@meowch Hope you are over this and taken a right step
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
24 Sep 20
Thanks, hopefully I’ll just do what’s best for me. Find a way to just give up completely.
@cintol (11261)
• United States
27 Sep 20
Im sorry your having issues with this person, sounds like it is time to just walk away. Sometimes friendships just don't work and you need to walk away from the toxic relationship. If this person can say negative and mean things to you, he is not someone you want in your life, you are worth more than that.
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@Writingghost (5196)
• United States
24 Sep 20
You will recover in your heart and head. The first step is to walk away and have no contact. It's not your fault. People are all different. When they are no longer kind, it's their problem, please don't make it your problem. You can find a lot of supportive people here.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
27 Sep 20
Thanks, I did walk away and this time I'm not looking back.
@piyushbhatia1 (11695)
• India
24 Sep 20
It is not easy to know if what people are up to if we are talking in person
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@Writingghost (5196)
• United States
24 Sep 20
@meowch It's fine to remember and be thankful for the good times and look to happiness in a new future.
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@MarieCoyle (37226)
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26 Sep 20
Sometimes you have to slam one door really hard to allow another door to open. Let him go. It sounds like he hurt you terribly, and you deserve better than that. Who knows, someone great may be just around the corner! Hang in there!!
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