playboy mags

I kind of feel the same way.. Im so thankful that my husband does not look at other women or mags.. I feel that it knocks me down. Like he has to compair me.. Well, Im not a busty blonde.. Instead Im a redhead, who isn't too fair.. Thank God, and I tan.. that makes me different.. and he slams guys who look at me.. so why should I let him look at other girls? Ha, I dont. I dont care to those of you who say they can look but not touch. I DONT feel that way. Maybe I get it from my folks, I dont know.. Call me old fashioned.. but I dont allow my guy to compair me.. as I do not look at other men.. and he knows that. It's a great balance that we have. Right now Im 5 months pregnant and he still looks at me as if Im as beautiful as I was the day we met.

hahaha nice topic, but i hv nothing to say, wife shud do something so their husband dont look here and there.

I see it as just a mag. We dont have any at our home but I have looked through them. I dont feel ashamed to look at them. And if he looks at them it doesnt bother me. His father gave him a whole collection of VHS nd plenty of the dirty Mags they are at his mommas in a box put away the only thing I worry about is my son seeing them before I think he is ready

If you feel this way, maybe it is time you decide to talk this situation over with your husband, and let him know how you really feel about this situation. Marriage is a 50/50 thing, and you should be able to talk about anything going on in it, and be able to come to a decision, and comprimise on what truly is best for each other. He may not know how you feel about this, and maybe you need to let him in on your feelings a little more.

My brother looked at Playboy when we were teens and then stashed them under his bed so Mother wouldn't find them. It's a fact of life with men. Get over it!

burn the magazines.

trash ur husban instead.

There's no need for the wife to feel trashed. Just looking doesn't mean much.

Men are visual...and most men read them.. Just get a copy of Playgirl and put it next to his Playboy. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

I don't think that just looking at Playboy mags should really make you feel trashed. You should actually be glad that he is looking at mags at home rather than going out to the strip clubs and/or to the bars. That is when it really gets bad. Maybe you should think about sitting down and looking at one or two with him, get more involved with it. Have you even talked to him about how you feel?

therte is nothing to feel thrashed...

I don't see this behavior as threatening to a marriage. Men need more visual stimulation. I see it as the equivalent, of a woman fantiszing a scenario (which is far easier to hide, since it's inside our heads).

I think its perfectly normal. A woman should not feel trashed over that. i mean if all he does is look at it and does not value or appreciate your body then Id be pissed