Short story: Annoying habits of other people can be particularly annoying to us too

The cutlery utensil container was always full of small teaspoons
@innertalks (21916)
Australia
September 28, 2020 5:47pm CST
The Mullah Nasruddin's father-in-law had an annoying habit, of getting a new teaspoon, every time that he made himself a cup of coffee. Abdullah, the father-in-law, had his own cup, which he always used, so at least, he washed this for himself, but even so, the Mullah would get hold of his cup sometimes, to give it a more thorough clean, rather than just the rinse out, that his father-in-law would always give to it. The father-in-law would place the used teaspoon, in the drying rack, in the utensils container there. Annoyingly though, he would never take them out of there again. He would get a new one from the drawer, every time that he needed one again. And so, the number of small teaspoons in the utensils container would build up, until there was so many there, that the Mullah would then notice them, as the pile of them was now reaching out of the top of the container. The Mullah would then take them all, wash them all again, dry them, and then return them to the drawer, only for this cycle of events to then repeat themselves, once more again. The Mullah was philosophical about this, though. He knew that his poor father-in-law was getting old, and absent-minded. He gave to him the benefit of any doubt that he might have had then, about the old boy's annoying behaviour, although, at times, he did think that the old guy, was doing all of this on purpose, too. He knew how cunning, he could be at times, and how sharp he really was, whenever anyone was about to put anything over him, or to try to take the mickey out of him too. The Mullah penned this poem to take his mind off of things then. Poetry: The Mullah's deepness is not as deep as he is shallow. The empty emptiness emptied emptiness emptier. Nothing is ever really empty then! The deepening deepness deepened deepness deeper. Nothing is ever at its deepest! The sharpness sharpened sharpness sharper. Nothing is ever so sharp, that it can't be sharper! Creation created creation creatingly creatively. Something else can always be added to creation! Oneness sits as itself until it explodes into infinity. Infinity then gives rebirth to itself, and returns to oneness. All is as it is, because of the recycler behind it all, God. God sits in his own love, and then pushes it out through this cycle. He realised that everything is but a vessel for everything else to fill, refill, or empty, and re-empty. Love, and spirit, need such vehicles (for them both) to come alive within them, and to do their stuff, both inside, and outside of creation. When we create a vessel, both love, and spirit (of endeavour) will rush in to fill it up for us, and to make use of it, in us too, even as we do too. Photo Credit: The photo used here belongs to me, the author, of this piece The cutlery utensil container was always full of small teaspoons, used by the Mullah's father-in-law, only one time only.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
29 Sep 20
The Mullah is never short of surprises but, in his infinite patience, is able to find pearls of wisdom hidden in hitherto overlooked places, no thanks to his father-in-law! The Mullah finds inspiration from one who keeps him on the edge, a hallmark of one who cannot be browbeaten by testing circumstances that would have laid low a lesser person. I have also read about a few who have OCD and keep the water flowing just to wash their hands continuously. They are never satisfied that the hands are clean enough. It is indeed tough to put up, live, with with a few who are beyond repair and only a few are able to see life in all its entirety and accept it. To see and face love in its entirety is the hallmark of an exalted soul and the father-in-law, knowingly or unknowingly, is helping the Mullah reach that zone.
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
29 Sep 20
Thanks, siva. That's all very nicely stated. I like how you worded that. Yes, creative diversions, can be a Godsend sometimes, to get us back on the right track of love. Love reaches past all else, with itself considered first, (or, when we allow ourselves to keep love first) and all else, all other considerations, is then dropped off, in its stead. This means that we should never put impatience, hurt, or upset, with another person ever replace the way of love, which should always be followed first.
@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
29 Sep 20
@innertalks Thanks Steve, The Mullah's legendary patience is rubbing on to me too! I comfort myself that this too shall pass.The good times and the bad alternate, a fact of life. I have had instances when a few were bent upon testing my capability and patience. There were a few that I look back and pat myself that I put trust and love above everything else. A few tried to trip me but I survived through my innate patience that I too did not know it was that deep! One that comes to my mind was when I had started my job in Indonesia. There were over four hundred in the employment and paying wages and salaries on time were a contentious issue. I had just taken over and a few thought I had a magic wand to settle this matter. The workers did not have bank accounts and were not willing to open to have their meager wages credited to their accounts, I could see their point of view. Their wages were used to pay off the debts and they felt bank accounts were troublesome. The General Manager instead of being in the team to solve the issue egged on a Belgian guy who was hot-headed. The latter confronted me "we are doing the work on time and expect to be paid on time" I said I do get the point and would settle the issue within a month. Then I found a way out; paid the total amounts to the supervisors and they took responsibility to pay those in their department, The only way out and I had to coax some of them. Then the GM made a remark - where is the confidentiality in such an arrangement. I asked him to suggest a better method and that settled the matter! After a few of such testing cases, including the cat fights that I had mentioned earlier that used to break out at the drop of a hat, I feel I have seen it all. Nature is love personified, does not test us but our species do - siva
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
29 Sep 20
@Shiva49 It was good that the Mullah's father-in-law was not one of those supervisors. He would have taken all of the total amount given to him, taken his half off of the top, and perhaps given the rest out to the workers, if his wife, still alive then, didn't pester him for more. Behind every bad man, is an equally bad woman!! We are known by the company we keep. Yes, we often do not know what we are capable of, or what resources are a part of ourselves, until we are pushed so deep into ourselves, that we find them there then, and finally make better use of them then too.