Join me under the "Homeless Tree"
@BearArtistLady (6036)
United States
October 8, 2020 9:31pm CST
Join me under the homeless tree,
See what we've missed, you and me,
We can grow taller and free
And smell of the stench of being Free
Join me under the homeless tree,
It's a place you said you'd never be,
Give it a try just a while to see,
What it's like to be homeless and Free.
I've been what could be classified as homeless for two months now. I'm learning a lot to put it mildly. I'm not to the point of eating out of the trash, thank God, and I do have a roof over my head and am working hard towards getting a more permanent one soon. But there is a lot learned and a lot more I could learn.
One thing I did learn is that our elected leaders need to have their mouths zipped shut (if you can find a zipper large enough) and told that they are going to spend the next 6 weeks under cover as a homeless person. During that 6 weeks they will have NO contact with their political office, their work office, their family or friends, co-workers or anyone who might give them any help. They are going to totally live the life of a homeless person, from food to finding a place to sleep. NO they won't have credit cards or any enormous amount of money to carry with them to cover any expenses. If they want money they are going to get it the same way a real homeless person does, either begs for it or goes through the trash for recyclable bottles for money. They can get a meal at the homeless shelter if they're lucky.
I am tired of the lip service that the elected officials are giving to the people that need the help the most. They aren't lazy, they can't get a job because for one thing they don't have an address or telephone. They aren't drunks, that takes money and what money they get either goes for food or booze, it depends on what they think is more important. Many of these homeless people have families that were evicted because they lost their jobs and couldn't raise the money for rent.
It's time for the fat, over fed, pompous politicians to start walking in their constituents shoes and seeing what life is like in their shoes, what it is like being treated like animal poop on the bottom of a pair of custom made shoes. (That's a really great feeling!!!!)
Those of you reading this need to rise up and challenge your elected officials who are giving lip service to helping the homeless and demand to know when and demand to know if the official has tried living the homeless life and if they haven't why the heck not. Challenge them to try it out for a few weeks, totally away from their way of life and totally homeless without any sort of contact from friends, family, coworkers, and business associates. I bet that they couldn't handle it, but they expect the public to do it daily and nightly.
Think on it!
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@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
9 Oct 20
@sallypup, you are such a sweetheart!!! You've been on my mind a lot lately, I can't tell you why. It isn't a "worried" kind of being on my mind but you have been there. Thank you for worrying about me!!! I've been very careful about what I do and I only do as much as I feel comfortable doing. I kept a bunch of mohair fur out of storage so that I can work on bears on days that I decide to sit and do "nothing" which in my life there is no such days. Today is one of those days. When I finish answering posts I plan to throw on some clothes and cut out a bear and start hand sewing it together. Oh and I am going to call Social Services about a section 8 apartment.
About the rest of your post, I will p.m. you about it if you don't mind...right now I send you tons of love and bear hugs and will talk at you later. L & H
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@sallypup (61662)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Oct 20
@BearArtistLady Of course. P M me all you want. Um....section 8 housing is hard to get, at least here it is. Thanks for thinking of me. I have a lot to think about these days for many reasons. I am in a wait pattern and that is driving me nuts.
@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
10 Oct 20
@sallypup Section 8 is really really hard to get here too. I have to try to get a hold of Bill's daughter again and see if she can resend the text message she sent about the section 8 apartment.
I'll be PMing you later this afternoon when I feel a bit better. I can't help but to think of another person with a cat that greets me....
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@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
22 Oct 20
Too often they claim that they did, but you can tell that they really didn't. The news broadcast tonight that Senior citizens are living in motels because they can't afford monthly rent (around here it goes for upwards of $2500 a month plus for a one bedroom and extra if you have a pet). I may have to move way out of town into a converted motel room because of the cost of rents. It's unreal!!! People think I'm joking about the politicians doing time as a homeless person-I'm not, they won't survive. That's why I help out the homeless all I can including giving them the coat off my back.
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@shaggin (72280)
• United States
1 Nov 20
No posts since this one. It is getting very cold here I am hoping you are doing okay. Being homeless is so scary.
@shaggin (72280)
• United States
8 Nov 20
@BearArtistLady I am so heartbroken for you. I’m sure not having much to eat and someone to live is making you depressed and causing so much weight loss.
@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
8 Nov 20
@shaggin I look at my situation like an addiction. Each step I take is like a step towards recovery. I know the problem with the weight loss is more than the emotional kick in the gut. It's a huge contributing factor, but there is more to it. In the morning I'm going to give up and call my Primary care physician and let him know that things have flared up again...bad. The last time he put me on antibiotics and it cleared up and I was able to eat again. Maybe this time it will happen again. I know I would much rather eat what I cook than TV dinners and cup of noodles. I'm not a big fan of take out pizzas or McDonald's or Burger King either. I think of food and want to throw up. But again, like I said, time will take care of this problem.
I have been busily getting the table ready for me to start laying out and cutting out teddy bears. The sizes will range from 4 inches to 18 inches. I have a pattern for a 30 incher but the fur is in the storage unit and I need to go through a LOT of stuff to get to it. Come to think of it I have to go through a lot of stuff to get to the paperwork for my PG&E claim and they sent me a message that they want copies of that again....Oh my aching back!!! Anyhow, today I get to work on bears and enjoy myself for awhile. I do need to go get some cat litter and some laundry soap but other than that it's my day to do as I wish and have a quiet day to myself.
Oh, watch for my sequel to this post. It should be interesting. It's aimed at the winner of the Presidential race. Love and tons of hugs to you. Don't be too heart broken for me...things will start to work themselves out one day soon.
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@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
8 Nov 20
I hope you are doing okay. It's getting cold here too. I packed one pair of jeans in my suitcase for my first months as a homeless person. I didn't plan on losing the kind of weight I did, nor did I figure I would be homeless this long. I went from a 38 inch waist to a 30 inch waist (that was a shock to put it mildly especially when I walked across the parking lot and my pants and underwear fell down around my ankles half way across the parking lot!!! And the cold is effecting me more than it used to. I checked in in the doctor's office in mid May at 180 pounds and when I checked in and they weighed me in July I tipped the scales at 152 pounds. I've been going down without even trying. I now hit the high note of 136. I have to go buy a couple pairs of jeans at the thrift shop so I have something to wear that isn't going to fall down around my ankles.
I agree being homeless is very very scary. Right now I'm trying to make a few decisions about where to move to, where to live, etc. I'm still not sure. I really need to be able to put on a DVD of old TV programs and set up a sewing machine and work on teddy bears and veg out on making bears and not thinking about much of anything else. First I have to repair the radiator on the car so I can drive out and get my mail and then go from there. One thing about being homeless is you learn a lot about yourself and your surroundings when you reach homelessness. I am learning and the situation is a good teacher.
Be safe and be careful!!! Love and Hugs, Toni
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@Michellekidwell (29427)
• Sonora, California
9 Oct 20
I hope you find a permanent place soon, and I hope you are okay, and safe...
@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
9 Oct 20
I'm as okay as I can be right now. I had to curl up inside myself yesterday and the day before. Yesterday was the four month anniversary of my Beloved Bill's passing. It was a tough day. I mistakenly thought that doing something I enjoy would make the day better but it didn't. I had a doctor's appointment and he had hot and cold running fits at how much weight I lost (hey doc, I've been trying to tell you, it's been 40 pounds!). But at least I have a roof over my head...I'm reminded every morning at 7 a.m. with the people above me at the motel doing their exercises to Jack LaLane (Don't know if you remember him, he had all the ladies jumping around doing "exercises" in the 50's and 60's. Mom did her share too...the house shook on it's pilings! LOL. But I am safe and okay up to a point.
Thank you for caring. I hope you're okay up there with all the fires. We used to live in Napa and even as young as I was (4 & 5 years old) I remember the horrific fires we stayed up all night for, ready to evacuate if necessary. Dogs, cats loaded in the car and the horse trailer attached to the truck and the car loaded and ready to go. Then we moved down to San Luis Obispo when I was 6 and that ended.
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@Michellekidwell (29427)
• Sonora, California
10 Oct 20
@BearArtistLady We’re okay here, thankfully I am a ways away from Napa, but we are getting some drift smoke.
@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
9 Oct 20
Thank you for your prayers. Being homeless isn't easy and hearing all the empty promises from the politicians doesn't help the situation either. I offer my prayers for the homeless daily, and offer prayers for you and that you have a wonderful and happy life too.
Stay well, and remember to wear your mask when you go out.
@BearArtistLady (6036)
• United States
9 Oct 20
Here in California there are forests and shrubs where the homeless can set up small camp sites and sleep in small groups where they feel protected. I realize that a "homeless tree" sounds a bit funny, but for the homeless people it is useful in so many ways. It provides shelter, it provides fuel for a small fire for cooking some food and some warmth, it provides leaves for bedding, away from the group it provides a place to use for a bathroom. There are some people that have found trees that are hollow enough inside to hold some of their belongings so that they don't constantly have to carry them with them all day long. Also, for the homeless, the trees that have dropped a limb, the tree also provides a weapon if needed. If the homeless person is attacked they can pick up a smaller stout limb and if necessary they can strike the attacker with the limb.
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@mcNathan (186)
• Philippines
6 Nov 20
@BearArtistLady I am deeply sad and sorry about the situation you have right now. Though I could not relate all the places you and some other here talked about, your whole situation is what I am concern and worried and imagine how you manage your daily life with your pets as you mentioned. The lose of your partner plus the economic situation you have right now for me is unbearable - am sorry for the lose of your beloved Bill. I hope everything would be bearable as some of your friends offered their kindness to you. Each of us has its own share of life's trials - others have their own, i have my own too and life must go on.
We must ready always what our lives lies ahead. We belong also to low class society in our country. We're also in deep needs since this pandemic started. I am just setting my mind positively everyday, thank God for life He extended each morning in spite of the paucity we have and never cease on asking His help while looking ways and means to survive on each day He will give me.
You have two pets left from your passing Bill, we have 14 dogs and 9 cats because me and my wife are both animal lovers and these animals added burden in our lives in terms of their maintainance. But no worries, we've been used to this situation for a long period of time. We will just find ways to survive...life is like a roller coaster..sometimes your down and sometimes you are up. I will include you in my prayers that we can overcome all this hardships we have and have peace always in our remaining lives. God Bless Us always....
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@GardenGerty (160996)
• United States
13 Nov 20
If you talk the talk then you should walk the walk. I do not believe our politicians could survive at all the way we have to live.