Why are some people always angry, bitter and twisted?

Very true. We can also just avoid them and not allow them to thrive.

@Lushlala You are right.

@msdivkar

I totally agree with you. Thanks so much for your words of wisdom

@Lushlala

I think you might be right there! I especially find it bizarre when someone who doesn't know you attacks you online, which has happened to me a few times, with the latest incident only last week here on MyLot. I think the person is just miserable within themselves but they're certainly barking up the wrong tree - I'm no doormat LOL

@crazyhorseladycx Yes, it's sad but not something I dwell on. It was on my post and this crazy person went on and attacked me about something I wrote. To be honest, I quickly decided she was inconsequential, just a mean, horrible person and decided to rise above it. You do the same, my friend. Don't let any of these toxic people steal your joy - they are NOT worth it. I agree with you; not worth the energy and time. Probably miserable, vile people who feel better putting someone else down. Oh wow, I'm so sorry to hear about your experiences here. IGNORE them and carry on with your life. It's not on you, it's on them. Focus instead on people who actually add something to your life, not those who dictate to you how you should be. Why on earth should you conform?! Yes, I think because I'm 'sweet' and friendly some people mistake that for being a pushover LOL But I don't suffer fools gladly and can definitely defend myself. But this latest fool - I didn't have the energy to argue. I chose to simply ignore the whole thing and move on.

@Lushlala most saddened such happened to ya here, hon. i believe they feel that since such's 'nline, there'd be no consequence so i hope ya reported such'n 'ssault. happens to me here, 's some 're downright 'ffended by my dribblin'. those folks're jest not worth yer time 'r 'nergy. they seem to get 'ndorphins released which temporarily make 'em feel good 'bout 'emselves when ya react - their 'haviors do not change. some've e'en the audacity to print that if'n i'd use 'proper english', i'd be more successful. whilst such's logical, 'tis not my goal'n life. i prefer livin' out'n the shadows'n jest be myself. proud 'f ya fer not bein' one :) grateful that'cha tolerate myself. many've requested i not respond/comment, loads here've blocked me out'ta fear i'd do't anyhow.

I totally agree. It's just sad, really and such a waste of life.

@Hannihar Yeah, I can see that. But it still doesn't make it ok to go around attacking people they don't even know. That's just nasty.

@Lushlala Some could have been happy before someone came along to want to make their life miserable and then feel so helpless.

You're very wise, my friend

@Lushlala

You sleep?

@Lushlala even before an argument happens

@piyushbhatia1 Hahaha that's an interesting way of avoiding confrontation

Spot on! I try to do the same

I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm not telling you what to do but I'd get rid of him ASAP.

@meowch Exactly! And you don't need all that mess in your life. It will only bring you down.

@Lushlala in the long run it is toxic to keep the friendship. You are right I should let him go.

Just horrible people.