He called me beautiful

@NJChicaa (118735)
United States
October 22, 2020 12:35pm CST
I texted my ex yesterday afternoon. He had a rough Tuesday and was pretty cranky so I left him alone that night. Yesterday I texted him to say that I hoped he was having a better day and that I love him. He responded "Thanks beautiful. I hope you are too." I was very happy to read it but it also just confuses me. Why the hell are we divorced if we still love and want each other? I think he wants to come over tonight. He is already starting with the texts even though he isn't done with work for like 5 or 6 hours.
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@kaylachan (66053)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Oct 20
Ask yourself, how do you feel about him? How is it when you visit? When you're apart? Love is complicated. It always has been. He could still love you, but not to where a marriage between you two would work out. Sometimes, people are just better off as best friends, and not so much as spouses.
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@kaylachan (66053)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Oct 20
@NJChicaa Then you two need a serious face-to-face talk about where you stand as a couple and understand why you split.
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@NJChicaa (118735)
• United States
22 Oct 20
I love him more than anything
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@marguicha (220255)
• Chile
22 Oct 20
He does have a problem. But he also loved you.
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@NJChicaa (118735)
• United States
22 Oct 20
It is crazy
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@marguicha (220255)
• Chile
22 Oct 20
@NJChicaa I do hope things get sorted out.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
22 Oct 20
Do you think that you would be VERY INTERESTED in getting back together, or would it be just because it would be easier financially?
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@NJChicaa (118735)
• United States
22 Oct 20
I don't need his money
@amadeo (111940)
• United States
22 Oct 20
you guys should get together and talk it over.Make a nice dinner invite him over and talk.Yes talk.
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@kobesbuddy (78889)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Oct 20
I am wondering if he only wants to have a relationship, without the marriage commitment. So many are resorting to this, at this time. Don't get me wrong, he DOES mean what he said to you. Yet, to become a married couple again, I really don't know. What's holding him back? I'm not sure.
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@NJChicaa (118735)
• United States
22 Oct 20
Who knows?
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@kobesbuddy (78889)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Oct 20
@NJChicaa I wish you could see inside of his brain, to find out what's going on!
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@LindaOHio (171842)
• United States
23 Oct 20
You have such a unique and complicated relationship.
@thelme55 (76645)
• Germany
23 Oct 20
I wonder why you are divorced. You seem to love each other very much.