I Wish I Could Tell People 'How Wrong They Are about God' without Seeming like a Hateful Loser

Peace for all

I agree with some part of it. I mean, fearing god thinking of him as somebody who controls is good as a child because there is a lot we are not gonna understand not having experienced the situations or incidents. We also lack vocabulary to express at the time. So its easy to dump all controlling factors on god. But as we grow up, we realize if we are gonna wear high heels, we can sprain legs, and god had nothing to do with it. There is nothing written in holy books to tell us that can happen. Common sense takes root. That said, I believe we are all interconnected in some way and the great god had something to do with it. I do something here. Tomorrow somebody else is harmed because of it. That person does something and I am harmed back. So ultimately, it is obligatory on us to be good for our own selves. Am I making sense?