Our Behaviour Represent Our Family Background

@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
November 12, 2020 3:03am CST
Hello all, typing this discussion on my break time of office. Past few days ago someone at my office talked with me attitude after behaving like a little bit rude. At that moment I realised that our behaviour not only represent our personality but also represent that family we belong. A gentle person who talks humbly is actually from a good family and a bad guy mostly belongs to a bad family where they never taught how to talk or respect others. Especially people should be taught from his/her childhood that how to respect women and talk. And we learn from our family at the beginning of our life. So, we should be careful about our behaviour as we also represent our family and no one of us don't want to make a bad image of our family, right?
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
12 Nov 20
Not always true but I think on most I agree... Sometimes even our parents tried hard to raise us the good way... Some children lost their ways when they go outside and met some bad peers...
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
12 Nov 20
Agree. Based on experience (not mine, but my sister's)
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
12 Nov 20
@Cheyee I've been there... Ha ha... I am quite rebellious then but I have realized everything when I become a family man...
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
12 Nov 20
@simplfred yes. Most people would realize it when they are older
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
12 Nov 20
Parenthood is hard. Sometimes parents teach all the good things, giving good example but kids have their own mind, have their own opinion. Family is not the only factor to build character. Friends and environment are also give big impact.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Agree on that too
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@Reen07 (78)
12 Nov 20
I agree with you
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 20
In some cases, it might be true. However we have to consider some who are affected by the people they mingle with, the environment and a few other factors. Even a good family can produce a bad person.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Yup that is also true, but that is exception
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
12 Nov 20
I agree, this is most of the time true, even if "black sheep" exist, there are bad elements coming from good families, I know a few.
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
12 Nov 20
@SHOHANA You are right, what you wrote is true for the majority of people.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Yup your point is also true dear, I just gave priority to the majority
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
@LadyDuck exception rarely found
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Nov 20
I absolutely agree with you.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Thank you so much dear, I'm experiencing
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@J3n4rA (262)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 20
Our behavior mostly influenced by our family, but there'a also outside factors whether friends or others environments touch our daily lifes. Yeah, I'm agree with you in most cases, but not in all cases
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Yes friends are also responsible, agree on that but parents can control at their earlier age
@rakski (126045)
• Philippines
12 Nov 20
most of the time, this is true.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Yup I observed it always like this, exception rarely found
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
@rakski yup that is partially true
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@rakski (126045)
• Philippines
12 Nov 20
@SHOHANA but is some cases, there are a few who is different from their family
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@LindaOHio (181721)
• United States
12 Nov 20
I totally agree. Many people today are not respectful and obviously were not raised properly.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
13 Nov 20
Yes and I've experienced this recently unfortunately. I don't want these kind of people around to be honest
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
@LindaOHio ok thank you
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@LindaOHio (181721)
• United States
13 Nov 20
@SHOHANA I don't blame you.
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@Janet357 (75646)
13 Nov 20
true. I know a kod who grew up with a foul-mouth because of his family background too.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
More or less we all experience meeting with such kind of people
@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 20
i agree with you. it represent ourself and our family as well
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Yes, I want people around us become good and represent them well
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 20
@SHOHANA you are right
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
13 Nov 20
@sophie09 thank you dear
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
13 Nov 20
Just cause they talk humbly doesn't mean they are from a "good" family. You can be from a "bad" family and still be a good person. It is all a matter of perspective too. Your "good" may be different from someone else's "good"
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
This is partially true, I just mentioned the majority
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• India
12 Nov 20
They think they are superior beings
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
You get it absolutely right
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
@piyushbhatia1 hey same here, they are good guys in front of boss lol
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• India
12 Nov 20
@SHOHANA not in front of the boss
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12 Nov 20
My family have not so good behaviour
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
14 Nov 20
@GodServantme that is sad indeed
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
That is sad, kids learn from family
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12 Nov 20
@SHOHANA yes. And my younger iblings talk to me badly
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@Luis11 (399)
12 Nov 20
You are absolutely right I 100% agree with this post.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Exception may found but this is the majority
@BrittneeD (350)
• United States
19 Nov 20
You definitely learn your behaviors and how you interact with people from your own family to start with because that's all you have. but I think that slowly changes to how your peers or others such as teachers act and how they treat you. I agree though If people treat you poorly you start to treat others poorly.
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
12 Nov 20
That's the same here. We judge someone's family thru his or her own behavior. It reflects how one grew up and what type of family one has.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Exactly you are right dear
@Shiva49 (26774)
• Singapore
12 Nov 20
I have worked in a few countries and have come across a few who are plain rude, cunning, jealous and non-cooperative. They can even bring down an organization if the top management does not intervene. I agree family background has a great influence too in our approach to life in general.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
13 Nov 20
Yes sir, I mean that. Family and surroundings have contribution to teach a child to be humble and thankful.
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• India
12 Nov 20
True, as family is a building bloc for an individual.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
12 Nov 20
Yes I mean that, you get me.right
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Nov 20
We are not laws representing our families. We never know how children will turn out and what their behaviors will be.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
13 Nov 20
This is partially true dear, a child learn the basic principles or manners from his/her family. You are right but I was talking about the majority
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