bad day
By marianne
@ckciasigurl (2081)
Italy
November 16, 2020 11:25am CST
hi friends!
my husband just got home today and he told me he will be away for 2 days this week and december 10 he will be away for 6 months for a mission. we have our baby she is 2 months old were living in a small province here in Tuscany , i don't have friends since i just move here last march my parents and inlaws they are 520km away.
im a first time mother . and we're in total lockdown...
we can still survive without going out because we have stocks but on december if he will be away for 6 months me and my baby we need to go to grocery and do everything, sometimes my baby she always wants to be with me if i will put her down she will be awake.
being a military wife is so hard
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
16 Nov 20
im still trying to figure out groceries online because my husband´s colleague tried to order online because he can´t go out because he has covid he told us it arrived after a week because the courier will bring it not there own people. for the stroller, I would love to use it but we have stairs and we don't have an elevator the main door and stairs is to narrow so, for now, were using a carrier especially if I go out alone if I'm with my husband we use the stroller because we can carry it if im alone i can´t once she can already carry her neck then i can just pull the stroller backward.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Nov 20
@ckciasigurl I understand. What a shame. It's going to be tough.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
16 Nov 20
hello he will be away for 6 months but he can go home when he´s off like for 2 days he will be going to rome it´s like 3hrs 13 min away from our place. im still hoping we can be together on christmas and new year even my birthday and anniversary on january. now were also lockdown and it will end december 7.
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
16 Nov 20
I must be challenging to have a husband in the military. Your baby is only two months old so he will miss seeing most of the first year of her life. Try to put her in a pram or pushchair and take a walk to the supermarket or get on-line deliveries.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
16 Nov 20
yes it's very hard a lot of sacrifices. he has some off like 2 days so he can come home every 2 weeks hoping we can be together this holidays and for our anniversary and birthday for now i prefer using baby carrier hoping lock down will finish soon
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
16 Nov 20
i have friends i talked to them video call ...
thank you take care
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@sallypup (60757)
• Centralia, Washington
16 Nov 20
@ckciasigurl I'm glad you can do that. I have no clue on doing things like that.
@Dreamerby (3821)
• Calcutta, India
17 Nov 20
Oh I see. It will be a tough time for you then. Figure some way out to send someone do the grocery in your place.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
17 Nov 20
hello yes im figuring out how to do it thank you
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