Can I date any old man?
By lwethu
@lwethu (242)
South Africa
170 responses
@dlufel (423)
• Australia
17 Sep 06
It's up to you really. 54 is almost like the age of someone who can be your dad. But if you really feel that this guy is the one, I dont really think anything could be your way to your happiness. So .. just look inside your heart, is that what you really wants? Or with your young age, I'm sure there's a lot of other guys out there.
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@praveenpgec (851)
• India
17 Sep 06
you can date any old man because it isn't the age that matters but your affection and love towards him
@michael666 (613)
• China
15 Sep 06
Stick with what makes you feel good. You did ask for advice and boy did you get some. There have been unsuccessfull relationships of this kind and other successfull ones. Let time be the test, if he's just acting then he'd have to be really good to keep it up for a prolonged period. You'll never be ditched like the older wife whose past the use by date and replaced by a younger woman. And if he falls apart in the future you can always trade HIM in for a youger model!
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
13 Jul 09
Actually when you read the latest report of this secret surveillance program undertaken by CIA, the one that specifically targeted at Al Queda leadership for a kill program is canceled mid way before it went fully operational, but the warrant less wiretapped of American people is going full speed ahead. No wonder eight years into the search for Osama and his lieutenants yield no capture and kill, USA military continue beating around the bushes, following cave and chasing after the shadow in Afghanistan. I think CIA is getting too big and complacent to get the job done right now, congress should consider shutting this agency down or lean it out in the future.
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
13 Sep 06
Well, u can but u shd not....
Ppl say that if u feel comfortable with him, if u r happy, just go around with him.... thats true... u shd be with the person u love.... But tell me Honestly.. do u think this will last for more than a month or two....
Nopes thats what i think honestly... coz in somedays surely there will be some differences between ur thinking and his thinking.... thats the generation gap... and both of us ll surely start to avoid each other.....
So its better to go around with someone with whom u can live ur entire life.. so find someone who can understand u for all of ur life... who ll b besides u whenever u need him... dont just go for 2-3 months of relationship.... u ll definitely get hurt if u fall in such small relations... so search someone who realy loves u and ll leave with u for ur entire life....
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
12 Oct 06
Well, if a 54-year old guy was dating a 28-year old chick, we'd salute the guy for being a stud at the great age. So, need we say too much about the issue.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
12 Oct 06
He is old enough to be your father, and probaly needs viagra.
@parth_ldh (1)
• India
17 Sep 06
hello iwetu u r too young for that man date with ur age partnerfind somone. i m not sayihng this is lust but not even u r in love with that person u have not find the suitable one thats why u r little bit tilted towards old man so try to be happy this will not give you long run happiness. otherwise it is up to u but be true to urself before becoming true to that man take care bye have a nice time
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@greatuncle (14)
• Canada
13 Sep 06
I am not sure why Age came up, it is only numbers. The thing is in Life I think is staying happy.
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
12 Oct 06
You'd be surprised by how people can adapt their interest. Ok, it's not like the bride Eddie Murphy was supposed to have in the movie "Comming to America," but you would be surprised how quickly a girl adapts to an old man - though, the old man would rather he does not look like him in the long run.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
14 Jul 09
If you want to date a man who could be old enough to be your father then go be my guest. I mean I could never date a man who is actually older than my dad, that would be tooo weird for me. THe oldest I would go in dating a man is 10 years, maybe 13 (there is a guy at work who is hot, but 13 years older than I am.) If you are comfortable with the age difference then I say follow your heart.
@varshadabhi (402)
• India
13 Oct 06
Yes ofcourse..if u dont believe ..go to pataya(bangkok)..u can c everywhere 15 ys old gal with 50 yr old man ..n they r very happy...
@rajivkumar900 (9861)
• India
13 Oct 06
yes you can but if you have option around 26 to 30 then why your going for 54 year old man r u fall in love with him..if yes then its ok otherwise its rubbish.
@hikaruch4n (339)
• Australia
15 Oct 06
Why not?
You both might need some adjustment, but if you love him and vice versa, it'll work
@lotmama (15)
• United States
15 Oct 06
sometimes it doesnt matter about age.although he is older he may not have experienced as much out of life as you have and vice versa.its about what you know and how much you know not how old you are.if you two enjoy each others company i say go for it.
