The Long Winter

@pjmurphy (2499)
United States
December 5, 2020 1:13pm CST
The pandemic started here at the beginning of March. Things were just beginning to green up a bit and the days were beginning to get a little longer. At that time, we handled our changing lifestyle well. We live in a rural area and love working outside. We began social distancing and wearing masks, quit going in stores unless absolutely necessary, did not go to restaurants, and limited our contacts to close family members. We didn’t know anyone personally who was affected by the disease. Since we are both retired and our incomes were not in jeopardy, we did not face the economic difficulties that some did. Now, after months of living in this increasingly difficult time, it’s getting harder, even for us. Now we personally know people affected by the disease and families who are in economic distress. We still feel blessed that we have not personally been too adversely affected. We’re still healthy and have everything we need. But as the days get shorter, the weather gets colder, and we see the suffering around us, it gets harder. And it is even more difficult when we see others around us not following the guidelines thus making the recovery for all of us more difficult. A few weeks from now will be the shortest day of the year, which means that nights come earlier. Then the days will start getting longer. We’ll probably have the first batch of vaccines to be delivered. And not too long after that will have a new administration, a competent one. So even though things seem bleak right now, I’m feeling a lot more hopeful about the future of this country. I think we’ll have a few very difficult months to go through, but we’re beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. How fast the recovery comes depends on how cooperative the American people are in working toward a common good.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 Dec 20
I agree with everything you said. Same thing here with us, except no one we know has faced economic problems.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
6 Dec 20
We know some folks with economic hardships because of lost jobs with businesses closing or opening with reduced staff. It's going to be a long winter, but I keep thinking how much harder it would be if we were not looking at new leadership.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
7 Dec 20
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@TheHorse (218548)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Jan 21
@pjmurphy I am hoping we will be moving in the right direction. We have been a rudderless ship for four years.
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@wolfgirl569 (105977)
• Marion, Ohio
6 Dec 20
A functioning adult for leadership will be a big help.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
6 Dec 20
For sure. But we still have some long, long weeks to go through.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
3 Jan 21
It certainly will.
@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
5 Jan 21
@JWMILLER Here's hoping for a better year ahead.
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@RebeccasFarm (89863)
• Arvada, Colorado
1 Jan 21
I am glad you are feeling hopeful a lot of the time I am not. But I am happy within my home at least. Blessings to you friend and happy new years
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• Arvada, Colorado
1 Jan 21
@pjmurphy I am so sorry did they make it Jo
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
5 Jan 21
@RebeccasFarm No, unfortunately, they didn't. Very, very sad and difficult for people we love--for all of us.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
1 Jan 21
We now have a family member who has COVID and is in very serious condition, so things don't look as bright as they did previously when I wrote this.
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@sallypup (61000)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Dec 20
Is that your snow bound place? Brrrr but lovely. I am grateful that my husband's job continues on though he mostly works at home now. We are involved with two houses- one the folks are having trouble paying but are dribbling in money, the other is totally paying what they should. I am grateful that we have not had to discuss issues with the mortgage company. Stay safe and warm!
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@sallypup (61000)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Jan 21
@JWMILLER I'm sorry you couldn't find your friend.
@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
6 Dec 20
That is not our place. Got the photo on Pixabay. We live in Tennessee. Not too much snow here, but we did get a small dusting this week. Just enough to be lovely but not last too long.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
5 Jan 21
I knew a fellow from Moses Lake in the 1970's, trield to contact him but no luck.
@TheHorse (218548)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Jan 21
I think the shortest day of the year may have been December 21. I hope we are able to work toward a common good. I look forward to Trump being gone.
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@TheHorse (218548)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Jan 21
@pjmurphy Heh. I think December 21 was the shortest day of the year.
@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
2 Jan 21
I'm already noticing the days getting shorter--or maybe that's just wishful thinking.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
5 Jan 21
I am wishing him gone Big Time.
@Plethos (13581)
• United States
6 Dec 20
ive seen the economic hardships affect my area very negatively.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
6 Dec 20
It's affected many people here and likely to get worse.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
5 Jan 21
There is lots of suffering.
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
6 Dec 20
A very good assimilation and recapitulation of the pandemia from a personal standpoint. A very significant human experience expressed in literature. It would be a long, bitter winter, as per advisements of health officials and government. Keep steadfast with the faith, the situation is a necessary chastisement and only those who act accordingly will see the light.
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
6 Dec 20
@pjmurphy That's twelve months away. What is of importance in the searing deaths each day presently.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
5 Jan 21
@eileenleyva It certainly is a sad time for many, many people.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
6 Dec 20
I believe by this time next year it will be much better, so have faith.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
3 Jan 21
Hopefully, 2021 will be much better.
@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
5 Jan 21
I'm waiting. It's still tough.
@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
5 Jan 21
Shelley said, If winter be here, can spring be far behind.
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
5 Dec 20
I can't say I know anyone who is or was having that hard of a time, even though I was out of work for 7 months the bonus unemployment that the government was handing out made up for the loss of the job. Hopefully we will see on Jan 6th this all go to court and get it straight. We don't need someone to go 51 years of politics doing nothing I think 47 years is enough. I am wondering how those that take the vaccines will make out. Hopefully not as bad as I think it might go.I hope the best for those that are "brave" enough to take it right away.
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
6 Dec 20
We know several people who are still out of work and running out of resources. And most of the people I know are counting on taking the vaccine. We'll take it as soon as it's available.
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@JWMILLER (3275)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
5 Jan 21
I have confidence in Duck and our scientists.
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
6 Dec 20
@pjmurphy Are they not getting unemployment? I know they extended it till sometime this month and are talking about pushing it out to March. I know it's not as much as their pay. Oh you are braver than I. I don't trust the government that much, never have. I will wait and see what kind of side affects those first people get before taking my chances with it.
@ellie925 (46)
18 Jan 21
Hopefully, from this spring things will start normalizing little by little everywhere.